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writes:Long distance relationships don't work. I know that. I have to talk to this woman daily for work purposes but it got personal after hours about 2 months ago. We have very little in common yet get along great. Until about 2 weeks ago. The phone calls have gotten pretty brief and very infrequent. Nothing has been said out right but there is no heat from her side anymore. Fine. Our personal relationship has run it's course and I should just be professional and polite with her and write it off as fun but over. But I can't stop thinking about how great it was going. Part of me thinks I can save this...but to what end? She's a thousand miles away. We've only been talking for 2 months. How did I turn into such a sucker for this woman so quickly? How do I get over someone that I have to talk to every day? Reply to this Question
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reader, Vanessa1983  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 :( I know the feeling, sorry i know this is a page for answers, but i dont have, I just hope you find some comfort in that I feel the same way. I have a colleague I got on with great. I mean amazingly well. But he turned cold, each time I tried to pick up with a friendly chat or mail I was met with a cold professional response, which left me feeling embarrased and pathetice. Sorry I didnt have an answer, prehaps she found some one else, which may well have turned out to be the case for me too. But if thats so they both should have bealt with it better and don't deserve our sentiments anyway :( x
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