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writes:i was seeing some guy..not going out..just meeting up and stuff but we werent serious. he found out i slept with someone else and went mad and wouldnt speak to me. i went to see him for the first time since this all happened last night and we were talking about what had happened. he was quite drunk and started telling me all this stuff..like he'd had a threesome and slept with five other people since he found out about me and this other guy. the next day..while he thinks im still asleep i hear him talking to his flatmate about how some girl had text him this morning etc. i don't know what he's doing to me..it really upsets me to think about him with other girls..but im no better..ive been sleeping with one of his friends. when we were meeting up he was my dream guy and i want that back. i don't know if things will ever be the same between us. i really like the guy though. does anybody have any advice on what his behaviour is all about..and if theres any way or chance of us getting back to our old ways. also..when we were talking last night he said he had not slept with anybody else before he found out about me, and he sounded like he was hurt at me sleeping with someone else..however when i slept with the other guy i did it because we had stopped seeing each other really and i thought it was over. any advice on the situation..such as his behaviour and if we have any chance..will be much appreciated. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so he found out last night that i slept with his friend!! and i don't know what to do!!! he won't answer the phone and the texts he sends are horrible..saying im a slag and he never wants to speak to me again!! i need help!! please! how do i get him back??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice..still confused about the situation but you definately helped me anyway!! :) xx
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reader, Vanessa1983 +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Hey
If you were only being casual his response to you sleeeping with some one else seems a bit much, unless he thought you were properly going out. Only other thing is he seems to be bitter about it and you both may just end up trying to get each other back. As much as you may like him i think you may have to put him aside and start afresh with another man. You've slept with his friend, he's slept with other girls...very messy! :(
Sorry
Ness x
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