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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, we are very much in love and talking about marrage and children etc. My problem is i recently found out that he's been looking up gay porn on the internet. When i confronted him about it he said it was nothing for me to worry about. He said he was just looking out of curiousity as he has a few gay friends and i guess he was intrigued by what they do together. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and believed him and he told me he would never look at it again. But i have caught him looking at it again and now i'm not sure what to do. It can't be just curiosity if he's looking at it again can it?He tries to tell me that all guys look at that stuff but many just won't admit it. Do straight guys look at gay porn?Do you think my boyfriend is questioning his sexuality?
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reader, pastfirst  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 He may just be curious. I don't think this necessarily means he's gay or even bi-sexual.
Take his word for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): it could be out of curiousity like he said or maybe he's seeing how he 'sizes' up against other guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): YES! this is serious! No completely straight guys watch gay porn, guys are usually very uncomfortable when you ask them if they find another guy atttractive and pretend they can't tell.
You really need to ask him if he's still attracted to girls aswell or he thinks he's just into guys. - is there any normal porn on his computer?
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reader, Vanessa1983  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 sorry to be clear i'm not implying you'r boyf is homophobic, just that gay porn does not equal gay man.
Chin up :D
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reader, Vanessa1983 +, writes (17 August 2008):
This only sort of points toward what i am trying to say
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1589/is_n730/ai_20799514
but it should display that even men who are very against homosexuality can be aroused by gay porn, it doesnt necessarily mean they are homosexual themselves though....sorry i know this article doesnt 100% coroborate what i'm trying to say but you get the point
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reader, ask sweeney :) +, writes (17 August 2008):
 not meaning to put your hopes down, but if a guy is watching gay ( guy on guy ) porn then chances are his bisexual, otherwise there would be no reason to watch it as it would not arouse him and getting aroused is the whole point in watching porn
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