Guys: Is monogomy a myth?
Q. guys have you ever been completly faithful to a woman throughout your relationship-I'm starting to wonder whether faithful men are a myth,all my boyfreinds have cheated...
A. 25 September 2009: I know my boyfriend has not and never will cheat on me because he's 9 years older than me. I guess you're still so young, and most guys at your age are meant to be playful and lack deep thought about the consequences and commitments. In 10-20 years ... (read in full...)
My partner doesn't want our baby.
Q. Hi, I am 30yrs old and I just found out that I am pregnant 3 days ago. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years he already has 3 children and his reaction when I told him I was pregnant was like I ruined his life. We did use birth control ...
A. 25 September 2009: Just quickly to note that I opt for the abortion option at this stage. There's no point bringing a child to the earth given that he/she would not have an intact family. I was brought up in one of these and my childhood wasn't happy because everyone ... (read in full...)
My partner doesn't want our baby.
Q. Hi, I am 30yrs old and I just found out that I am pregnant 3 days ago. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years he already has 3 children and his reaction when I told him I was pregnant was like I ruined his life. We did use birth control ...
A. 25 September 2009: Well,we can see he's got a lot of baggage already. It's very understanding that he doesn't want anymore children. If i were you, I would have discussed these issues with him from early on. It's clearly unfair to you as his personal preference ... (read in full...)
Is it weird for someone to go clubbing by themselves? And is it dangerous?
Q. Is it weird for someone to go clubbing by themselves? And is it dangerous? When I go clubbing I often see alot of guys just by themselves and I see them the whole night, just standing by themselves, like as if they arent there with anyone. ...
A. 22 September 2009: YES it is extremely dangerous even if you're trying to hook up with someone for one-night-stand. It is very unusual for a girl to go on her own. Try to go with friends of your friends?
How about inviting your friends to go to a nice pub with good... (read in full...)
Letting go is sometimes the hardest.
Q. This is more for people who are going through heartbreak at the moment - and to say that people have far more strength than they realise. I have had so much heartbreak from someone i will probrably never get over but more realise that i deserve b...
A. 22 September 2009: Make yourself busy and stop feeling sorry about yourself. Life is too short to stay miserable. These periods are like flus, sucks a bit at the start, but you will get over it eventually, sooner than you realised. Give yourself a few months, and I'm ... (read in full...)
How do I accept and tolerate the things I don't like about him?
Q. Some of my partner's behaviors are turn offs to me (his porn subscriptions and very rare pot use). He's a great guy who treats me like gold. But, I can't get past these two issues that really bother me. We have talked about it and he offered to ...
A. 22 September 2009: Feeling of the sorts are bothering me at the moment as well. It's really depends on whether those obnoxious traits are important to you or not and whether if you have communicated about it. Very recently, I tried to tell him about it in an extremely ... (read in full...)
Why most Women are attracted to Bad Men
Q. Every woman on the planet that has ever been involved with a man that was not worthy of her has asked of herself these questions..."Why can't I find a decent guy, Why do I always meet the wrong men and When will I find a man who really loves me?" ...
A. 20 September 2009: Well first of all, I regret that I'm not qualified enough to provide a response with more reliable knowledge in the psychology field. However, I've read that the relationship between parent and child has shown to be a low correlation factor to adult ... (read in full...)
Knowing when to get out of a dying relationship
Q. Being in a relationship has been compared to being on drugs, the highs being really high and the lows being the pits, both end with withdrawal symptoms. Unfortunately when the relationship begins to go sour we tend to do what drug users do, we chase ...
A. 20 September 2009: I'm sorry to hear about your heartfelt confession. Sounds like you are very despair about relationships matters. The only constant is change indeed. You devoted a good deal of observations about his change, how about yours? Have you changed or ... (read in full...)
Would you get rid of someone if they told you that they had a personality disorder?
Q. Since they say personality is what you look for in someone first and foremost, it puts me in quite a dilemma. I have a personality disorder, well... actually I have two, Borderline and narcissitic personality disorder (yes I've been diagnosed). If ...
A. 20 September 2009: I wonder if you have been ever professionally diagnosed. Even if you have, it's a psychological disorder and that means you can make a difference for yourself. I have also learnt to be very sceptical towards psychological disorders. I remember I ... (read in full...)
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