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Has my friend's husband crossed the line with me?

Q.   I would like your opinions please as to whether you think my friend's husband has "crossed the line" with me? I have been close friends with them both for over 20 years. There has always been a bit of a spark between us and even my friend has joked ...

A.   1 March 2010: Sounds like you both might be crossing the line a little. Like you said, there is a bit of a spark there, but this is your friend's husband. It is up to both of you to set boundaries and not cross them. It's crazy to think that once we get married ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child

Q.   im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...

A.   8 February 2010: Goodness. I hate to say this, but you're asking for advice, and every time we say something you keep making excuses for him. And the excuses that you’re giving aren’t really helping your argument, they’re making it worse! We would all love to see ... (read in full...)

My parents wont listen, I am 14 he is 24

Q.   im 14 and going out with a 24 year old. We both love each other very much but my parents hate him.I can understand why but they cant accept that im actually happy. He still wants to be with me even though my parents have givin him loads of grief in ...

A.   5 February 2010: I know I am joining the band wagon here, but... When I was 15 I was dating someone who was 23 and thought it was cool and neat.. I thought, Wow.. How lucky and amazing and mature if I can get this good looking older guy, and he loves me!! I'm 27 ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child

Q.   im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...

A.   31 January 2010: He has anger issues and needs helps. That is the bottom line. You need to think of yourself and your baby. If you do not want to leave him and don't see it as an option then he needs to get help. Men DO NOT HIT PREGNANT WOMEN IN THE BELLY! He isn't ... (read in full...)

Should I take police advise and sue my ex?

Q.   I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, ...

A.   31 January 2010: I don't think that you should feel responsible for his future relationships with women. This is about you and what you need to do to get over him and all the damage he has done to you. You have the right to do whatever you choose, and if ruining his ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child

Q.   im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...

A.   31 January 2010: Gina is right. And chances is are it will get worse. If he is having these problems now how is he going to react to the stresses of having a new born in the house? I know this is really hard to do. If he's physically abusive I can only assume he's... (read in full...)

I sort of like this guy and we kissed while drunk, but he has a girlfriend! what should I do?

Q.   A few months ago I kissed a guy, we were both quite drunk, well really drunk. He goes to my college, and is in a few of my classes. It was really awkward for a while, but it's alright now. Anyway, I didn't know that he had a girlfriend, wh...

A.   31 January 2010: Hmmmm, this may sound harsh and I don't mean it to. But, he has a girlfriend. Or had, that he cheated on. Not really a stand up guy. He doesn't seek you out to talk to you, or have any kind of friendship. I'm sure you've made yourself available and ... (read in full...)

Going to sleep with a man I work with. How can I get over my flaws and be more confident in bed?

Q.   I met this man a year ago. We work together. We find each other really attractive and have finally decided to sleep together (once). There are no long term plans, we just want to have fun together. What I want to know is how can I make sure I ...

A.   31 January 2010: The only thing you can do in embrace your body, flaws and all. What makes sex so exciting and fun is throwing all those cares away. He has seen you at work, and he is attracted to you. Just have a drink, take a deep breath, and remember -- this guy ... (read in full...)

Why do I always end up just being 'the friend' when I want more than that?

Q.   Why am I one of those guys that women want to be friends with but nothing more? Of my ten closest friends, nine are female. They all say I would be a great catch. I have asked them, seriously, what I could do to make myself more appealing but ...

A.   31 January 2010: I think you just need to be more assertive. Go out with your friends, go to a bar/coffee shop/whatever you choose and find a girl that you fancy and walk up and introduce yourself. You're not approaching her to make a new friend, you want to ask her ... (read in full...)

I'm in love, he loves me.. But he lives with her...

Q.   So I have known this guy Dave* for a little over a year. I don’t know when it happened but somewhere along the line we became attracted to one and other and began some sort of relationship. Slight problem? He lives with his girlfriend. There was a ...

A.   29 January 2010: Ugh! You're right Caring Guy, that's the wake up call I need to hear!! I need a good verbal slap in the face every now and then.. And with this I need one right now.. Stings a little, but that will subside..... (read in full...)

Can you please tell whether or not I should go back to ex-boyfriend? or should I get married and be together with my new boyfriend?

Q.   what can i do to forget my ex-boyfriend? we had been together about 5 years,i still love him so much, i'm sure that he loves me too, but it's just that i can't live together with him becuase he is a hot-temper person to deal with sometime. i asked ...

A.   29 January 2010: I agree with Caring Guy. You do need to just put the focus on you. It's a little bit of a red flag when someone wants to jump into a relationship that fast. You need to take time to slow things down, get to know one and other first. When people skip ... (read in full...)

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