A question about being engaged and fancying others
Q. this is a question for people that are engaged or have been engaged.......... Truthfully when you are engaged to somebody do you EVER fancy/fantasize about somebody else. Say for example, you see somebody regularly and then think 'oh actually they ...
A. 6 October 2011: As a guy that has been married for a number of years I must say that both my wife and I have had fantacies regarding other people. Anyone from movie stars to the check out girl at the local supermarket,,,it happens. It does not mean that a mate ... (read in full...)
My husband has given me STIs!
Q. I have been treated three times for STI's in the past five months. My husband claims he knows nothing of it. I have not slept with anyone else except him. I now insist we use condoms and he complains its not proper for people in marriage. Should i ...
A. 6 October 2011: If you are talking about an STD (Sexually Transmittede Disease) or a STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection)? Either the STD or the STI can ben transmitted by sexual contact, but the STI has a little more leeway. For instance, if you have a simple ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is taller than me, and I don't know how to kiss him!
Q. Ok so i'm 13, never had my first kiss, but i have a boyfriend in 8th (i'm in 7th). We have been together for like 2 days but i know the kiss is coming sooner or later (dont judge). I'm a shortie 4'9" and he's 5'8" big diffrence to me. To get the ...
A. 6 October 2011: The cool thing about relationships is meeting half way.... (read in full...)
Why do I keep making mistakes due to inattention to detail? How can I do things differently?
Q. I keep messing up in my relationship with my boyfriend. It's over little things like not remembering things that he said he told me and forgetting too tell him thing too. It has put a serious dent in our relationship. Like tonight we got in to a fi...
A. 6 October 2011: Simple, work on your memory skills. Little things like getting into the habbit of keeping a notebook with you and writing everything down. If you are dealing with a contractor, get into the habbit of taking his business card everytime you talk to ... (read in full...)
B/f says he doesn't watch porn anymore but won't get rid of his collection!
Q. Hey there, So my bf and I have been together for about 9 months, and our relationship is great, sex is great, and we're pretty much best friends. I was just curious about his watching porn, so we talked about it. I'm not opposed to porn necessar...
A. 6 October 2011: In not willing to get rid of the porn he has a made a decision regarding his relationship with you. It could be he values his porn collection more than you. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about what my cousin will say when she finds out I did things with a boy!
Q. right well i done stuff with a boy the other day while my cousin was on holiday, me and my cousin are both 15 but she is older she is very protective of me and goes mental when she finds out i've done stuff as she has never done anything, she comes ...
A. 6 October 2011: First of all, why should it get around school? If it does get around, you should be angry with the boy that blabed. Now don't get me wrong, I am not an advocate of teenage sex, yet I am not stupid...teenage sex will happen, and there nothing that ... (read in full...)
I want my girl to stay with me for a night
Q. hello there i am a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been dating for awhile now and she wont come and stay the night with me juat for at least a nigh. soo i had asked her why wont u come stay with me. she tells me that she is scared. so i had ...
A. 6 October 2011: This will take time because she has had a negative experience the last time she spent the night. The question is what you want? Do yo want this stayover to be platohic or do you want sex? Either way, you need to be honest with her. It is up to ... (read in full...)
He has told me to pack up and get out with no explanation. We've been together for 4 years and have a 2 year old child!
Q. hi there,pls i need some advice.i'm 25yrs and my man is 47yrs old.weve been in this relationship for almost 4yrs. we even have a boy of 2yrs.we were planning to get engaged this november. But two days ago.we had a slight misunderstanding and then he ...
A. 6 October 2011: Your description of the event that caused him to tell you to move out seems incomplete to me. A guy with a 4 year relationship that has produced one kid just doesnt tell his woman to get out of the house on a whim. This problem sounds like more ... (read in full...)
With an unfaithful guy...What should I do?
Q. I need advice for my friend, She is madly in love with this guy and he makes her happy but then when she hangs out with him and his female friends he acts like she doesn't mean a thing to him all because her ex bf lives with her and they have been ...
A. 6 October 2011: It seems that you are putting up all of the red flags, but your friend is just "choosing" to ingore them. If that is true, then there is not much that you can do. Sometimes, you have to stand back and let your friend go down in flames. That way ... (read in full...)
Too much too soon!
Q. So things are going well with my new boyfriend been almost two months. But - I lived on my own and have worked from home most days, for over a year - which has suited me fine as I absolutley adore my space. The new man is wonderful, but assume...
A. 6 October 2011: First of all, it is not unreasonable that after all of this time having the absolute say on the kind of space you want, it is unusual to have someone invade that space. What you need to do is to be honest with him from the get go. Tell him that ... (read in full...)
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