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5months pregnant... how to tell my mom?

Q.   Okay I am 13 years old and 5 months pregnant..... I have no idea how to tell my mom and I don't know how she'll react. I've kept this from her for 3 months. I am not really showing yet. I have a little bump showing. A few of my closest friends know ...

A.   26 August 2010: sweetheart, you have to tell your mom. Now. I know its going to be hard, but you need to get to a doctor, get checked out, make decisions - and you will need your mother to help with all this. I know its scary, and your mom will probably be mad, ... (read in full...)

How can I 'Wow' my boyfriend while giving him oral?

Q.   My boyfriend really enjoys me giving him head, but I'm not too good at it and don't really enjoy doing it. Please can you give me some tips on how i could improve my technique or is there any throat excercises i could do to improve it?? ...

A.   26 August 2010: step one to good oral: DONT STRESS ABOUT IT!!! After that, remember, YOU are in control. Id advise using your hands to control how much you take into your mouth, until you get more comfortable. Humming certainly works, but i found that licking and ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend cheating online with girls half his age!

Q.   hi everyone.. its been AGES since ive been on, i guess that means life was going ok. Well now im stuck again. 2 years ago, i met a wonderful man on the internet We now live together. I love this man. Hes divorced and his a son, who i treat as my ow...

A.   9 August 2010: hi - a bit thank you to those who replied to my question - im now free, single and holding it together - just. im devasted, but i know i had to kick him out. time to lick my wounds now, and wallow in a large vat of chocolate! ... (read in full...)

Are we destined to have bad relationships depending on how we were raised?

Q.   Dear cupid, I've been wondering this for a while now and maybe it's true maybe it's not but I have watched it happen to alot of people, heard famous songs about it, even watched it in movies and those movie ideas had to of come from someone....

A.   2 August 2010: i dont think this is the case... well, im my case it isnt anyway! I have a great relationship with 2 loving parents, married 34 years, and i attract all kinds of scum. Current situation - his parents are married 42 years, hes cheating on me with ... (read in full...)

Do I respond to an email from a 14 year old when I'm 30?

Q.   I got to work this morning to find an email that I don't know what to do with, so I'm looking for some help here. It's from a girl who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. I'll give you a little backstory. I work for a local bank. I used to manag...

A.   2 August 2010: I couldnt believe that i was reading. Tell me your joking. If you're serious, delete the email and never think of this girl again. Shes a child. Your an adult. You CANNOT respond to this mail - god knows what sort of trouble you will get into. ... (read in full...)

How can I make my ex regret dumping me?

Q.   I cut all the contacts with my ex when he told me about his new gf and said he was very happy together . But he wanted to stay with me as a friend.I denied saying that it may spoil his present relationship.But He insisted me to keep in touch with ...

A.   2 August 2010: sweetie - best thing to do is forget this man, forget revenge, making him regret leaving you. The only thing thats going to help you regain your self esteem is walking away, and moving on. ... (read in full...)

Is having an internet lover stupid?

Q.   Is having an internet lover stupid?...

A.   14 November 2008: i have to disagree with Star 07 - i met a lovely man online, and we're now dating hot and heavy - we're moving in 2gther and planning to get engaged in the new year. But i am a lot older than u... dont forget to go out and enjoy being young!!!!... (read in full...)

How do I help my boyfriend get through the first anniversary of his last girlfriend's death?

Q.   Its me, again. Crickey, my life is really complicated these days! Im not usually like this, just the past few months have been crazy. Well, im happy now, in a relationship with a new man, (the same man of the last post!). However.... next week is ...

A.   27 August 2008: I want to thank everyone for their kinds words, and for sharing their experiences with me. I realise that your personal loss is much more extreme than my situation, and really appreciate you all taking the time to offer advice. Tomorrow is THE ... (read in full...)

My girl's past experiences make it hard for her to trust me. what can I do?

Q.   My gf has a very bad past experience. She caught her x cheat on her and suffered a great pain. Since we started our relationship, that bad experience still stayed around her. She said she will not be able to stand if another guy cheat on her. ...

A.   2 August 2008: Hi there, im goin thru a similar situation myself 2day, actually! my new man was horribly hurt in the past (his last gf committed suicide a year ago, and treated him soo badly for the 2 years they were 2gether - cheating, hitting, etc). Ive told him ... (read in full...)

Sex Talk with New Man??

Q.   Hello again! I have another question.... any help would be really appreciated! If u have read my last 2 posts, u will know im lookin again after a long relationship. Well, it finally happened - with an old friend. We're havin a great time, every th...

A.   29 July 2008: thanks for your reply! I have to admit, i have never really enjoyed sex as much as i could have - and i think at my age, its about time i got some pleasure! I will give your advice a try, and see how it goes - wish me luck!!!... (read in full...)

Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??

Q.   Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but ...

A.   3 July 2008: it IS me!! I promise!!! twinkletoes is here, alive and kicking. I kept in touch with him, but i wont be seeing him again, he is nice, but not for me. The spark is not there, really! The search continues!!... (read in full...)

Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??

Q.   Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but ...

A.   30 June 2008: i actually wrote this a few weeks ago - i went to visit him (and took a friend with me) - we had a great time! My friend stayed with some relatives, and we did sleep in separate beds. We decided that while we like each other, the distance was too ... (read in full...)

Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??

Q.   Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but ...

A.   13 June 2008: thanks for ur advice! We're going to him place cos there is a leaving party for one of his cousins, and he wants me to meet his mates. Hotel cos hes currently living with his parents, he was travelling for 2 years. I didnt want to stay with his ... (read in full...)

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