Should I just sit around and wait for him forever?
Q. Ok, I've posted on here once before about my relationship with my ex-boyfriend. Quick Recap: been together 18 months, he moved cross country with me when I was offered my dream job, 2 months after getting here he decided that "something just wasn't ...
A. 16 July 2009: I suppose I haven't been able to "let go". He is my EX, but I still have hope. We moved cross-country together for my job over 4 months ago...but it was always a discussion. I wouldn't have taken the job if he had said "let's stay put for now". He ... (read in full...)
I walked away but did I do the right thing? He keeps begging me to come back...
Q. I need some advice. I recently left my fiance of 3yrs and called off our wedding that was in 2months. I have posted other questions regarding the breakup however I need some help with this one. My ex keeps calling and begging for me to come back and ...
A. 25 June 2009: Good for you for realizing it before your wedding day! Of course he's going to say those things, he wants you to marry him. Go with your gut. If your gut says it's not right, then don't let someone else talk you into it! Sounds like you're doing the ... (read in full...)
Am I a fool, or is there still hope?
Q. 18 months ago I met the man of my dreams and began what I look back on as the best year and a half of my life. Our relationship was everything that I had ever wanted, everything I had searched for. This was it, I just knew it. We talked of marriage ...
A. 25 June 2009: So I made a small step...I told him on the phone yesterday that I planned on coming out to a music festival (in our old city,2000 miles away,where he currently lives) next month. He said great or okay or something like that. I said, "yes, it'll be ... (read in full...)
Why won't she return my call?
Q. I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has ...
A. 25 June 2009: Sometimes I don't call friends back or duck their calls if I'm not in the mood to chat. BUT a guy that I like... if I'm really into him, I will make the time to chat and if I say that I'll call back, then I do it. But that's when I REALLY like a ... (read in full...)
Why won't she return my call?
Q. I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has ...
A. 24 June 2009: It sounds like there is some external factor playing into this... maybe the ex? Or did she meet someone else? Who knows! Just give her a little bit of time... she'll probably come around and the truth will come out. The main thing is to remain calm ... (read in full...)
Will I ever be happy again?
Q. I have been divorced, have 2 kids, broken heart from a one year relationship with married man, suffering from sleep disorder and depression lately,and I've got no one to talk to about and no crying shoulder. Am I ever going to be happy again an...
A. 24 June 2009: I cannot speak for certain, but maybe with 99% certainty, and the answer is yes! You will be happy again, but only if you allow yourself to be. I am prone to depression as well, just coming out of a sad, terrible breakup... but I believe, I DO ... (read in full...)
He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?
Q. I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but ...
A. 24 June 2009: Maybe the fellows can answer better, but from my(female) perspective... I would be upset! It's one thing when it's a fantasy (i.e. some unknown or distant model/actress), but when it's a familiar person (family member!), that's too much. Ask if he ... (read in full...)
Am I a fool, or is there still hope?
Q. 18 months ago I met the man of my dreams and began what I look back on as the best year and a half of my life. Our relationship was everything that I had ever wanted, everything I had searched for. This was it, I just knew it. We talked of marriage ...
A. 24 June 2009: Thank you so much for your answers. They have given me much to think about and I so appreciate these different points of view, all unbiased. Yes, I did what was right for my career at this time. By moving back, he did what he thought was right ... (read in full...)
If you're in an LDR and it's working, PLEASE respond!
Q. I need to know if Long distance relationships work. So for all of you in happy LDR's, please respond and tell me that they work and you're happy. Also, how often do you see eachother? the guy i like is 6 hours away from me and we both are broke ...
A. 23 June 2009: I think they can work, if you are strong and determined. I was in a LDR with someone... it was a 4 hour drive from each other and I would make the drive every other weekend, or every third weekend. This went on for 4 months, until I met someone in ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my yoga instructor out?
Q. Hello, Last week I took a yoga class at the library. The instructor was quite pretty. I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure if it's appropriate. The reason I say that is because I mentioned to her I was going to send off an article about he...
A. 23 June 2009: I always think of yoga instructors like doctors... like it would be a conflict of interest to go out with them. BUT, realistically, it's fine! I think asking her out for coffee would be an easy way to initiate something, but without being like ... (read in full...)
Am I a fool, or is there still hope?
Q. 18 months ago I met the man of my dreams and began what I look back on as the best year and a half of my life. Our relationship was everything that I had ever wanted, everything I had searched for. This was it, I just knew it. We talked of marriage ...
A. 23 June 2009: Jason X, I see your point. I just have so much advice thrown at me from friends, I feel like it's clouding my vision. I was hoping this unbiased forum might help. My one friend says that I should hate him for leaving me... that if he really loved ... (read in full...)
How should I handle seeing my ex-boyfriend again, he will be visiting me soon?
Q. Help My boyfriend is coming around on friday for his car tax that arrived, we broke up six months ago after a 11 years he left me for another women. he never stopped texting me since he left and the texts have got much heavier over the last two ...
A. 23 June 2009: I think you need to text him and tell him that you'll mail his tax bill to him. Don't see him. It's a bad idea. If he broke up with you for another woman after 11 years, you need to have some self-respect and move on. You deserve better!... (read in full...)
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