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She cheated on me at christmas and I don't know what to do for the best...

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for about 4 months now and she told me the other day that over christmas she got drunk and ended up cheating on me, she didn't have sex with this person but they did other things. I really don't know ...

A.   12 January 2010: i agree with "caring guy" if she has said that she doesn't know if she can promise not to do it again then the chances are that she will do it again. theres no point staying in this relationship because you will just end up getting hurt again. ... (read in full...)

How can I make our relationship work and get him to trust me?

Q.   I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he ...

A.   19 November 2009: I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he ... (read in full...)

Should I ask her out or not?

Q.   Alright I have a question that needs to be answered immediately, please. There's this girl that i really like and I think I'm goin to ask her out tonight. just to give her the whole weekend to think about it. The only thing is that were really good ...

A.   13 November 2009: if you think that she feels the same way then yeah definately, but otherwise, i'm not so sure because i went out with my male best friend and it didn't work but what it did do was ruin what was a very good strong friendship, so if you think she ... (read in full...)

She tells me she needs me... but she's got a boyfriend! How do I handle this?

Q.   help!!! there is this girl who has had one boyfriend all her high school career, they have been going at it for over 2 and a halve years, i started talking to her 8 months ago. i have relaized that im and absolutly 100% in love with this girl, and ...

A.   29 October 2009: you need to sit down with her and talk to find out if she really does care about you as much as she says she does, ad if she does then you need to tell her that she can't have both of you! also, you say that you are best friends,half of me wants to ... (read in full...)

I'm starting to wonder if she doesn't like me, that would be nasty because I really like her.

Q.   So me and this girl have been texting for a while and we really like eachother. She's really cool and she always tells me I'm sweet and amazing. But when we meet eachother in person she barely makes eye contact with me and she freezes up. She barely ...

A.   29 October 2009: i think that she does like you, but is maybe just shy around males. you should tell her exactly how you feel about her, maybe her knowing just how you feel about may help her gain confidence around you and help her communicate more freely. Good ... (read in full...)

I don't want a relationship based on sex - how do I avoid this? Are we moving too fast?

Q.   Okay, so I used to work with this guy for two months and well, that's how long we've known each other. When I first met him, I really liked him, a lot. And last weekend, he told me that he liked me since we met, and the day after,, he asked me...

A.   29 October 2009: if you feel ready to do it with him then do so if the feeling is mutual, however, before you do so tell him that you don't want a relationship based on just sex, you still want to be a normal couple. and if afterwards you feel that it is all about ... (read in full...)

I wonder where this is going?

Q.   I've been dating this girl in college for about a month now and I've been spending a lot of time with her since we both are in the same program. We've already kissed and stuff and we are very comfortable with each other. My question is when I i...

A.   29 October 2009: well it's pretty obvious that you have feelings for her so maybe you should tell her how you feel and how much you do like her. the only way to find out if she feels the same is to open up about your feelings, and if she feels the same then i'd ... (read in full...)

I simply don't know what to do or say to take it to the next level?

Q.   There is a girl that I have recently been introduced to and I am pretty sure that there is chemistry between us. I am basically a 26 year old adult that does not have much sexual experience. I have absolutely no idea what I am doing, I can't...

A.   29 October 2009: i think you should ask her out for a date and whilst on the date try to give her a kiss or maybe even say that you feel there's something there and see how she responds. Good Luck! ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend gave me an unwanted hickey?

Q.   OK hi my name is mimmy.im 20 years old.and me and my boyfriends been together for 5 1/2 months. and he gave me a hickey.that i clearly didnt want.but If i tell him no he will stop and look at me and tell me why? why? you have another man at ...

A.   29 October 2009: i might be wrong, but i think that it may be his way of letting people know that you're not single... (read in full...)

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