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I need to find a way to talk to him

Q.   ok so there is this guy that i really like and have liked for a long time and i went to a dance and he was there. i know him but we are definantly NOT close!!! anyways i really like him and i wanted to dance with him but i didnt want him to say no ...

A.   10 May 2009: You should stop thinking too much. Follow you feelings, ask him for dance and let God to take care of the rest.... (read in full...)

Guys: What does it mean to you if she wants to swallow?

Q.   Question for the guys. If a girl wants to swallow your cum, what does it mean to you? Is is special in an emotional way or purely sexual? ...

A.   9 May 2009: It is very sexual of course but with a strong essence of deep intimate and emotional connection. It excites me much more than pure oral.... (read in full...)

What to do to tighten up?

Q.   Ok well I haven't had sex in a year because I'm scared to w/my husband b/c we've had 2 kids my last 1 3mos ago. But the reason I haven't is b/c after my 1st child my vagina was very. Loose to him. Now to me nothing changed it was still great but he ...

A.   9 May 2009: I actually think it's not you - but your husband is having a problem. Even if you'll tighten up - he might come up with the next excuse.... (read in full...)

Saggy vagina at this age???

Q.   I know this sounds disgusting but it had really been bugging me, people say that grannys have vaginas with their flaps hanging out the bottom and that it is disgusting, well... I'm only 13 and I have that problem, is this normal or am I 'saggy'?? T...

A.   7 May 2009: I am sure your body is in perfect shape. What you described does not make you less attractive or less sexy for guys. Women will likely give you more specific answers but from man's point of view you have absolutely nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says that sometimes I am wetter and loser. Why?

Q.   My boyfriend told me that every now and then when we have sex I feel wetter and looser for some reason. He thinks I cheated. Is there any logical reason this could happen. I have not cheated on him....

A.   7 May 2009: He feels unworthy about himself and afraid to be cheated on. He covers his fears this way. He is probably also overly controlling to cover his inner insecurity. I not sure of that helps you anyhow - but if that's not the type of guy you want to ... (read in full...)

He's the love of my life but his kids always come first to him.

Q.   Dear cupid I am 20 and I am In a realtionship with a guy whi is also 20 but he has two kids from a previous realationship. I love him and I feel that he is the love of my life. But I can't help but to feel a little selfish because not that I would ...

A.   7 May 2009: I think you should be proud of him. Definitely don't feel jealous for attention - imagine years from now he'll love your children the same way. You'll be happy mom and wife. ... (read in full...)

Head over heels in love with a guy who doesn't love me back

Q.   I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I've tried eveything possible but i can't help it, i am totally head over heels in love with this guy that clearly doesn't love me back. He could make me the happiest girl in the world if only he loved ...

A.   7 May 2009: Best solution is to find another guy that would take your attention back from this one. This would work magic. I know it worked for me when I was in school and had mad crush on the girl.... (read in full...)

I find older women more attractive, physically and intellectually.....

Q.   Hi I am 28 years old and I have always preferred older women. the first time I had sex I was 15 and she was 23 and from that point on older women have been my choice. Sure I have been with several younger than me girls but I feel they're immature, ...

A.   7 May 2009: I guess that depends on memories and experiences and also whether both parties are looking to be fulfilled for their needs. I personally feel more attracted to much younger women both physically and emotionally.... (read in full...)

The relationship with my dad is fading fast and I don't know how to rekindle it. Help

Q.   i am 13 years old and when i was younger i was very close to my dad. i looked up to him all the time. But as i've gotten older that relationship seems to have deteriarated. my mum had two more daughters so my dad now has three daughters. i also pla...

A.   7 May 2009: You are very loving and kind girl. You certainly need all the attention you can get and you need to feel loved by your dad, especially at this age. He is not giving you enough attention probably because something else occupies his attention, o... (read in full...)

My best friend said these awful things and now hates me. Should I forgive him?

Q.   Okay. I don't know what to do. My "best friend" and i hate each other and it wasnt my fault! Last year my auntie died and i was really cut up about it as we were really close and it was a shock. so when i needed my friends around my so cal...

A.   7 May 2009: I wouldn't name the person "best friend". But forgiving really helps you a lot. When you forgive you let the grief out of yourself and weight of negativity off your shoulders. Miracles happens when people forgive. It may be hard at the beginnin... (read in full...)

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