We had unprotected sex. Should I ask if everything is ok with her cycle?
Q. okay, awkward subject: I've been dating a girl I really like for the past 5 months. We've been having sex on the regular basically every time we see each other. Only thing though, last month (the 25th specifically) she was on her per...
A. 10 May 2013: Thanks for the replies everyone. Going to chat with her tonight about it... I posted earlier but somehow my answer didn't populate here. Anyways, yes I normally use condoms, but that was a slip up that in retrospect I'm really worried about as... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex. Should I ask if everything is ok with her cycle?
Q. okay, awkward subject: I've been dating a girl I really like for the past 5 months. We've been having sex on the regular basically every time we see each other. Only thing though, last month (the 25th specifically) she was on her per...
A. 10 May 2013: Sorry, should have mentioned that yes we normally use condoms regularly and yes realize the severity of the situation. I apologize for not using the right term for "plan b" but what I really meant was an "abortion pill" which is offered up to 9 ... (read in full...)
Could use a bit of advice... this girl sucks but I can't quit her
Q. So I basically just need to tell someone this story and get some potential advice on what I should do. This is kind of a follow up to an existing post I have here: http://www.dearcupid.o...
A. 2 November 2012: I might be a little misleading though, I mean I really do like her A LOT. Much more than anyone else I've dated. I seriously think I'm in love with her which is why this one is tough. Thanks for the reply though. ... (read in full...)
Could use a bit of advice... this girl sucks but I can't quit her
Q. So I basically just need to tell someone this story and get some potential advice on what I should do. This is kind of a follow up to an existing post I have here: http://www.dearcupid.o...
A. 30 October 2012: Thanks for the reply. I know it sounds immature, and I guess I was reluctant for her given her odd history... but I think the thing that annoys me the most is how inconsiderate she is / has become. I actually confronted her about the FB post... ... (read in full...)
What the hell happened? We went from being everything to nothing and I don't even know why
Q. Need a bit of advice / help to guide me through this one. This is a long post. So, I met one girl online around December. Started dating her regularly week to week for couple of months. I had sex with this girl and lost my virginity to her...
A. 11 April 2012: Thanks for the response. Yeah, I shouldn't contact her again, but it's just so painful that I would almost prefer a nail in the coffin kind of thing. I dunno, it's hard to explain. It's seriously become such a joke the way that things work out ... (read in full...)
What the hell happened? We went from being everything to nothing and I don't even know why
Q. Need a bit of advice / help to guide me through this one. This is a long post. So, I met one girl online around December. Started dating her regularly week to week for couple of months. I had sex with this girl and lost my virginity to her...
A. 11 April 2012: Thanks for the reply. It helps a lot to try and make sense of things. I just don't understand her mindset at all or what her intentions were. ... (read in full...)
Could use a little advice on what to do after my first date...
Q. So had a really awesome first date with a very pretty girl that I met online last night. Honestly a little out of my league, but I am very into her. I'm just being real here that I am fit, have a great job, witty, confident, etc... but I am balding ...
A. 27 November 2011: Thanks, and yeah I definitely try to portray myself as honestly as possible, but of course I'm not going to put up a crappy picture of myself... I do look like a have a lot of hair in pictures, but in real life and up close... not so much.
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Could use a little advice on what to do after my first date...
Q. So had a really awesome first date with a very pretty girl that I met online last night. Honestly a little out of my league, but I am very into her. I'm just being real here that I am fit, have a great job, witty, confident, etc... but I am balding ...
A. 25 November 2011: yeah that's true... thanks for the reply.... (read in full...)
Could use a little advice on what to do after my first date...
Q. So had a really awesome first date with a very pretty girl that I met online last night. Honestly a little out of my league, but I am very into her. I'm just being real here that I am fit, have a great job, witty, confident, etc... but I am balding ...
A. 24 November 2011: Thanks for the replies everyone.
Yeah I'll send her a very brief text today, sometime this afternoon... Nothing to lose, but I really don't want to mess this one up haha. Don't want to jump the gun on things and seem like I'm WAY into her, but... (read in full...)
What's going on with this girl?
Q. So had three amazing dates with this one girl I met online. Pretty much once a week for the past 3 weeks or so. Things were going smoothly up until this past week haha Third date last sunday ended pretty well, with a make out outside of her c...
A. 9 November 2011: Update: so, she got back to me tonight... her response was not that ideal, predictable but I really don't understand it:
"Hey! I'm really sorry about the past week. I think I've come to the conclusion that dating is a terrible idea for me right... (read in full...)
What's going on with this girl?
Q. So had three amazing dates with this one girl I met online. Pretty much once a week for the past 3 weeks or so. Things were going smoothly up until this past week haha Third date last sunday ended pretty well, with a make out outside of her c...
A. 8 November 2011: Thanks for the responses everyone. Going to pretty much just not pursue this girl any longer... after thinking about it, she's just a bit too immature for me to want to invest a lot of emotion or time with. BLAH. ... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 2 September 2011: Blah. I mean yeah, the couples stuff we did was all initiated by me - but you have to understand, I'm seriously so inexperienced with dating I've never had it any other way... Always me taking the initiative. So yeah, I hear you, but the thi... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 31 August 2011: Thanks for the reply. Finally had this conversation last night ... So, basically told her how I feel. Asked her pretty directly of where she thinks this is heading, and your'e right. She just wanted to be friends. I'm pretty miserabl... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 9 August 2011: Sorry for the delayed response... your reply had me thinking for a long time about things and I wasn't quite sure how to respond. Until this novel of a post. Hope you've got your reading glasses - Status update: Stalled on having this conv... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 13 June 2011: Didn't even end up meeting today! She bailed on our coffee plans and instead saw a movie with her mom! Was going to meet me tonight for dinner but decided she had too much school stuff to do :)
I had stuff going on today too, but that just rea... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 12 June 2011: Again, thanks for the reply. Going to meet up with her tomorrow for coffee... been sort of stalling meeting up with her since I really needed to think about how to approach this.
I mean the hardest thing about this situation, and what it boils do... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 8 June 2011: After thinking about your question though "what is it that you want?" I think that what it is that I want is a FWB or real relationship, if I had to settle with being friends with her that would be fine, but I think after this conversation takes ... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 7 June 2011: thanks for the response, and I need to be clear though that did listen to her... but I still don't get this "non-serious" shit. I am not sure that "non-serious" means the same to every girl or guy. I mean yes, I understand that she doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 7 June 2011: Thanks very much for the response. You're probably right and that I need to talk to her about it, but I'm afraid that the outcome would jeopardize whatever it is that we've established. It's just hard because I do enjoy her company very much, and I ... (read in full...)
Shall I keep trying to get hold of him or wait for him to contact me?
Q. Ok big help hear please peopel, Ive met this guy who i have yet to meet i have wrote about him on hear b4 about him sending a text saying how much he likes me etc Anyway we where ment to meet today but as i know hes worried about meeting m...
A. 7 June 2011: um, your first paragraph is very confusing, but overall I would say that you should just wait for him to contact you, and if he doesn't, then just move on to someone else. ... (read in full...)
Is she leading me on for something more even though she knows we're friends?
Q. I went to a club with a group of friends and one of them was a woman. The group was dancing but later on me and the woman ended up dancing, just me and her. We haven't known each other for very long (about a month) and she started grind dancing ...
A. 7 June 2011: Well, I've seen something very similar go on recently to one of my friends.
The thing about the dance clubs is that girls can be the biggest teases in the world. From what you've said, I would think that this girl just wanted to dance with you... (read in full...)
Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but ...
A. 6 June 2011: blah. WHY DOES SHE JUST WANT A FRIENDSHIP!??? I mean she's in school and I get that, which is why I want to give her space. I don't frankly understand it though, I mean she knows that I like her in a non friendship way. If she wanted to be just ... (read in full...)
She really hurt me, now she wants to see me again, should I??
Q. Hi, I was in a relationship with a girl some time ago. Our relationship caused me a lot of pain. I helped her out a lot with issues both emotionally and financially. She lied to me about a lot of things, and I felt treated me badly, with not ...
A. 6 June 2011: Hmm. Doesn't sound right to me.
The biggest thing here is that you were putting in so much more than she was. It shouldn't be a one way street, she should have known that at the time of the relationship and not have taken advantage. I feel lik... (read in full...)
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