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... Send *one a private message | | | *one's profile:I'm Tony. I just had a devastating breakup with my fiance. Though we were together less than a year it got very serious very fast and I invested all my time and money into the project of being with her for the rest of my life. She suffered from abuse and trauma and mental problems and I wanted to help her.
I have learned that you cannot save another person with love, as appealing as that idea might be. The only person you can save with love is yourself and that's a hard truth to learn.
This site has helped me so much in seeing that heartache is so common and talking with other people and sharing your wisdom and learning from other people really helps me feel better and put things in perspective.
I always believe its better to try to work it out if both people are committed and willing to do so. Love is what we leave on this planet and its the thing I want to do right in my life over everything else. This includes loving myself.
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I date a guy and then 3-4 years later I don't love them anymore
Q. I'm almost 28...divorced...2 baby daddy's...what's my problem? I date a guy and "think" I'm in love...then wake up 3-4 yrs later and don't love them anymore? Why can't I commit? Why can't I love someone for the rest of my life? I've always been like ...
A. 3 January 2011: Do something different together to take you out of your pattern. Neither of you are being stimulated so it get's boring. Start a new hobby or adventure and take risks together. It will bond you and change you.... (read in full...)
Everyone tells me my neighbor is in love with me and I'm the only one not realising it. But I already have a BF
Q. I am a 25 year old female confused because I been recently close with my neighbor who was engaged but broke up with his girlfriend about month ago. I been here for him during this whole break up but everyone tells me that he's in love me and that I ...
A. 3 January 2011: I broken man is a dangerous animal. This neighbor needs to express love to you as part of his mourning process of losing his engagement. Dont compare your boyfriend to him because they are in different places. The relationship with your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
How can I rip him out of my heart and my mind?
Q. I'm in love with this guy who has showed me he doesn't love me back or at least the same way I do. He is self centered, bad tempered, some what paranoid, liar, drinks and smokes cigars that I don't like. After all this I should say to myself, w...
A. 3 January 2011: You need to cry and mourn the loss of him. Try to fill up your heart with something else. Write in your journal. Exercise. Be creative. Turn your pain into something beautiful.
Focus on the bad stuff. The smoking and drinking. Get out and ... (read in full...)
When I'm with him, I'm happy, when apart, I over analyze everything
Q. I had been dating this guy I met online for 6 months before I decided to call it quits. The thing is, he's constantly calling, emailing and texting...trying his best to win me back. I'm not sure if it's guilt, or true love - but I'm starting to ...
A. 3 January 2011: Everyone is ready to tell you to be apart from him. Spend so time with him. You dont need to marry. Just enjoy your time together. Take the good parts of relationships as gifts. He makes you happy? Then see him and love him for how he makes ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to forget the bad love and shift to the good love!
Q. I met her (A) last year at a christmas party and fell in love with her immediately. So beautiful. So funny. And damaged. I love those damaged girls. I even had a girlfriend at the time who I wasnt crazy about romantically but had a great ...
A. 3 January 2011: Im getting better I think. Its hard because I started the relationship at this time of year in 2010. I keep thinking about what I was doing last year and feeling so strong in my heart. The new woman I'm seeing is gone for a few weeks and I'm sick ... (read in full...)
Why do I always have to be the one to initiate sex?
Q. Why do I always have to be the one to initiate sex with my girlfriend. And 99% of the time she comes up with some type of excuse not to have sex with me. This has been going on for the last year and a half and I am getting sick and tierd of ...
A. 3 January 2011: I know this problem. Maybe just masturbate in the bed with her. If she wont get off with you then play with yourself and maybe it will turn her on. At least it be a way to break the cycle of you asking and her knocking you down. You can be ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he respond? Is he flirting?
Q. this man that i see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gesture. he said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. he watches me and sometimes walk back and fourth to his office when he knows im in the hallway and he make sure he ...
A. 2 January 2011: pretend youre not interested anymore even if you are.... (read in full...)
Looking for my soul mate. Am I doing something wrong?
Q. I'm a single, attractive female with little dating experience looking for my soulmate in new york city. This has happened to me twice so I'm posting about it. I must be doing something wrong. I went to a club/bar with my friends, met a f...
A. 2 January 2011: I'm in nyc too. In this city, if you see something you want then take it. If you want to run around parties with me and meet people that might be fun. Maybe you need a wingman.... (read in full...)
How do I win back this girl's heart?
Q. I fell in love with her as soon as I met her. For the first time I had met someone just like me, a soulmate, and it didn't take me long to believe we were made for each other. Also for the first time I felt what it was like to really love a girl and ...
A. 2 January 2011: Hey there. Im not sure what to tell you but women will never ever stop breaking your heart. The funny thing is that once you get strong and dont need their love anymore they will be interested again.
Be strong in yourself. Heartbreak is lite... (read in full...)
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