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writes:I fell in love with her as soon as I met her. For the first time I had met someone just like me, a soulmate, and it didn't take me long to believe we were made for each other. Also for the first time I felt what it was like to really love a girl and care about her, and she made me feel the happiest I think I have ever felt! It seemed pretty obvious to me that she liked me too, but, after a while she suddenly started avoiding me, and this prompted me to finally admit my feelings to her. I was devastated when she told me she didn't feel the same way, and she apparently avoided me because she knew I loved her.A few weeks later I'm still completely heartbroken. She still wants to be friends but I have felt too embarrassed to be around her. I miss her so much and I know it's ridiculous but a part of me believes that maybe, just maybe, deep down, she might like me after all. I want more than anything to be with her because she is so special to me.
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reader, wolfgang1  +, writes (3 January 2011):
let go and she will probably realize she really cares. if you chase she will only move further away. Games suck but sometimes you have to play them. i feel bad for your pain. i would rather have my ass whipped than feel heartbreak
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): I feel for you. Its sad when you admit your feelings to someone and get that kind of response, you have to prepare yourself for the fact that she may not feel the same as you. However people are complicated and she may just be taken aback. I was in the same situation and avoided a guy when i found out through friends that he liked me, i didn't know what i wanted, in time i realised how much he meant to me but he had already moved on. You deserved to be loved in return and its her loss if she doesn't return your feelings, you sound like a lovely guy in time she will see what she's missed.
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reader, tone +, writes (2 January 2011):
 Hey there. Im not sure what to tell you but women will never ever stop breaking your heart. The funny thing is that once you get strong and dont need their love anymore they will be interested again.
Be strong in yourself. Heartbreak is literally heart beating getting messed up because of this anxiety. Go workout and breathe deep.
This is part of life. Women break hearts of men.
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