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... Send *oddybad a private message | | | *oddybad's profile:I'm a 28 year old guy from the UK. I've kinda discovered over the last few months that my heart is in the right place and I think I'm a nice guy but I let my heart rule too much maybe and end up just getting hurt time after time. Anyway, I'm hoping you guys can give me some good advice and I can give you some good advice even if its the very advice i know is right but which i ignore myself ;-) |
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Can giving head cause a throat infection?
Q. I'm really sick, I have a throat infection and I gave my boyfriend head this week. Is it possible that giving head can cause a throat infection. I know he's clean for std's, but I'm not sure since urine passes through there, it might cause a throat ...
A. 5 April 2009: you can't KNOW he's STD free but then again if your relationship is pretty strong and you trust him you might be right. urine is basically sterile so that wouldn't do you any harm just so you know. You might just have a sore throat?... (read in full...)
Why did I say no when I wanted to say yes to his proposal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and he recently asked me to marry him. He is the most wonderful man I could ever have asked for, but for some reason, even though my head and heart wanted to say yes, I said no. I've broken his heart and ...
A. 18 February 2009: gillaume's idea is superb. go for that. you need to do something quickly. basically this is so he doesnt think there's no future and disappear and while he is hurting you rejected him the high from realising your real feelings will be such a switch ... (read in full...)
I feel ugly and scared I'm passing this negativity to my son!
Q. im 25 yrs n ave a 2year old son. i feel ugly even do my parter or my mum dont think so. i always think negative, i'm scared dat i am passing the negativity to my son. some of my friends made comments without thinking saying i am just there meaning ...
A. 20 November 2008: It sounds to me like you in the midst of a depression. You even used the word yourself. I don't really think it's a matter of not being around your friends - what what you've said they're not purposely saying things that make you feel sad it's more ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to not like sex?
Q. I'm confused. I started things a little late, but since I've reached 30, I've been with three women one time each. The first time, even though the girl I was with was attractive, I didn't feel turned on. I couldn't finish, and the whole ...
A. 20 November 2008: It sounds like you were not as relaxed as you should be and i guess from what you're telling us thats theres a nervousness about sex for you - for a guy i don't think women realise how much of what goes on in our heads effects us sexually. when ... (read in full...)
Should I commit forever to a relationship that started with me as sloppy seconds?
Q. The first two times I hooked up with my girlfriend she had slept with her ex boyfriend earlier in each night. These two times we hooked up were a year apart, and the 2nd time a few months before we began officially dating. Once in a while she talks ...
A. 20 November 2008: ? I have to ask - what does it matter? It happened and you've known about it for a while and been dating for 14 months. It sounds like you really like the girl so why on earth would this make any difference to that?... (read in full...)
How can he say I'm his girlfriend then turn around and say he's single?
Q. I'm 43, dating a 53 year old guy for 3 months now, he refers to me as his girl-friend. (but he says he's not ready for a commitment...) Also, I've found him on 3 online dating sites, where he lists himself as single seeking a women/activity partner. ...
A. 13 November 2008: Firstly, do you know that these internet site profiles arent old ones still hanging around the way things do on the internet? why not ask him? if this is true you should get shot! if he's 53 and not ready for commitment when will he be? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to make out with me, any tips on how to be less nervous?
Q. (I'm 13) Well basically, I want to make out with my boyfriend and I he wants to make out with me. (He told my best friend because he was hoping my best friend would tell me... which she did) Then he asked me if I would mind if he wanted to make out. ...
A. 13 November 2008: Yeah, stick to just kissing dont go any further!
you know what the key to being a god kisser is just to do what feels good. dont shove your tongue right in thats the golden rule. just kiss him so it feels gentle and loving. if tongues come into... (read in full...)
When is he going to cut the apron strings?!?
Q. ive been married for 2 years and im 25 with 2 children,ONE OF THEM FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP. my husband lost his mum 2 years ago and his sister is an alcoholic and his father is very religious in the worst possible way (always preaching and ...
A. 12 November 2008: Have you tried speaking up to his father in front of him? not shouting and screaming but putting across your concerns about what he did and explaing firmly yet fairly that you are with his son and you want to make a life together. your husband will ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm no good to a man when I'm single and wasting space.
Q. I'm 24 and I've been looking for love since I was 16 and yet to find it..as I get closer to 25 I have just become numb and even more depressed. I have always been a sad woman. I am getting older and soon guys are going to start to want girls younger ...
A. 12 November 2008: You know, te more you think about this the lower and lower you'll feel. it can be hard when you're single and everybody else seems to have partners. it can feel awful when its been this way for a while. the thing is you've probably got really low ... (read in full...)
What is with men and older women?
Q. Guys:- Are men really attracted to older woman? (For example women in their 30s or 40s?) Why do some men date older women - is it because they get bored with younger girls or does age really not matter? Also what age gap between younger men and...
A. 12 November 2008: You know what, i think the other respondants have got this wrong a bit. I'm a 28 year old guy who fell completely for a 36 year old woman recently. things went a bit wrong but i still love her. its not just the sex - yes that was great - but its the ... (read in full...)
Any other man could give me a baby so I wonder why I'm sticking with him?
Q. I have been married to my husband for just over a year. We have been trying for a baby for almost 3 years in total, but since we've been married, its been constant every month. I had a miscarriage 6 months into the marriage, and I haven't become ...
A. 12 November 2008: You really need to step back a moment. You obviously are desperate to have a child. And a miscarriage is a terrible thing which will have done enormous damage to your mental state - whether you have allowed yourself to recognise this or not. But... (read in full...)
Emotionally Abused
Q. I am with a guy that is emotionally abusive I guess. I don't feel like I can trust him at all. For some reason I just can't get myself to leave him. I love him so much, but he makes me hurt so bad. He broke up with me many times and says it is ...
A. 12 November 2008: Unlike most guys I understand where you're coming from here. I'm 28 and until recently had been in a 7 year relationship with the mother of my 4 year old child. During that time I lost all my friends, my family (including missing my own sister's ... (read in full...)
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