Coming out to my mother please help
Q. Okay, so basically I only have one last person (also the hardest person to come out to) that I am a lesbian and my best friend is also my girlfriend. I was wondering how I should tell my mom about us. Also we both still live with my mother and we ...
A. 10 November 2014: hi pls do it in person. if ur really that scared have ur brother with you. dont worry. and before u tell try to umm financially be pretty stable or move out. dont rush into anything. be calm. and explain to her whats in your heart. i assure u it ... (read in full...)
My ex sees what I did as cheating
Q. hi everyone. i have a question for ull. i had been going out with my ex for a bit more than one year and we were on a break. i went out with this other guy for a movie and i kissed him on the cheek and he kissed me on my lips nd i pushed hin away ...
A. 31 October 2014: i wouldnt have considered it as cheating. i would hv understood... (read in full...)
Is there a way for me to make my mother understand that she's not being left out?
Q. Hey everyone, I'll keep this short. Basically, I have never been the sort of person that discusses my feelings or anything relationship related with my friends and family, there is no reason for it, I just don't like talking about it with people. ...
A. 30 October 2014: anytime. well the letter is an awesome idea i had done something of that sort. dont worry give it some time and you will be all good. juat remember time heals everything, slowly but nevertheless heals it. i hope you are better. take care :) ... (read in full...)
He's controlling and abusive. What's the best way to handle this situation?
Q. Been with my partner almost five years, we have a four year old son together. For the last two years our relationship has been very rocky. It has been an unhappy relationship for me, since being with him he has stopped me seeing family and frien...
A. 29 October 2014: no sweeetyyyy you're not at fault here. i would suggest you leave him now because I don't think your child should be traumatized by all this and think of yourself too. be happy. Take your family's support. take a friends support its k to ask help. ... (read in full...)
Can you help calculate the maths to perhaps arrive at which guy is the likely father?
Q. This is kind of embarrassing but i just want an opinion im fairly sure i know the answer would like some opinions though. I am 6 mths pregnant. at the time of falling pregnant i slept with 2 guys. im fairly sure i know who the dad is but was w...
A. 29 October 2014: see its hard to come to a conclusion only a dna test is going yo help u out. do not bother about people judging u. ur gonns be a mom (congratulations) its k and be happy always. lots of love. hope ur well.... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity. What should I do? Talk to my Dad? Or talk to my Dad's apprentice?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I ended up losing my virginity with my dad's apprentice. My dads apprentice (J) is 18,and I've known him for 3 years . He came round last week to drop off the keys to my dad's work car. I was home alone as my family was...
A. 29 October 2014: Don’t tell your dad as yet as he might become overprotective and do something which you surely wouldn’t like. i hope you used protection otherwise go to a pharmacist. talk to your friends. Everything will be okay. Have a nice day :) ... (read in full...)
Since my parents divorced my mother has changed. Why does she continue to reject me?
Q. My parents are divorced. It was a messy, painful battle, and my mother is the one who initiated it. Since then, she has moved away and changed into a completely different person. Her social life is so busy she no longer has time for me. And when...
A. 29 October 2014: hi first of take a deep breath. it will be alright . look if your mom had initiated this divorce then probably she felt caged and now she feels like a free bird. so let her enjoy a bit and she will come back to you. she has played the role ... (read in full...)
Should I go with girl A? But what can I do about Girl C's jealousy?
Q. Hello DC, it's been a little while. I need some help. Girl problems, as usual. Pretty wordy, this one. Sorry. There's a girl, let's call her Girl A. She's new to my life, but when I met her, I knew something good would happen. I had asked her ou...
A. 29 October 2014: to answer your first question. yes do give it a shot. go on a trial one week relationship and see how it works out and then on you guys can decide. Don't give up on her when she herself has told you so. and make sure she isnt your rebound to ... (read in full...)
Is there a way for me to make my mother understand that she's not being left out?
Q. Hey everyone, I'll keep this short. Basically, I have never been the sort of person that discusses my feelings or anything relationship related with my friends and family, there is no reason for it, I just don't like talking about it with people. ...
A. 29 October 2014: as females a mother will expect her daughter to tell stuff u know. and thats normal. but if u say that ur mom knows how u are probably she thought u guys would get closer as ur staying in uni and all. sit down with her or go out for dinner nd tell ... (read in full...)
It seems he doesn't want me in his life anymore, what do I do?
Q. We met 6 years ago in college and since then he have been talking on the phone and he said he used to care about me and all that but would always ask for sexy pictures. At first I refused in doing so and then I gave in. So then, he came to town to ...
A. 29 October 2014: hi he isnt worth it. ur so sweet to go meet him and his parents. dont be upset time heals everything. be patient. it will be fine. that feeling u have now of sorrow will become anger and then u wont even bother about him. he is to put it kindly ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether I have fallen out of love with my B/f, or whether we are just in a rut from never spending time together
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years exactly (its our anniversary next week), and I don't think I love him anymore. We live together and have a "family" together -- a cat and dog. We have a lovely home together and are saving for out f...
A. 29 October 2014: hi its k to feel that way. if u see long rlnships u tend to take the smaller things for granted. so dont lose hope. remember those moments and regarding ur sex patttern just wear something sexy and seduce him when uguys have an off and one day just ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I'd rather have a piece of jewellery than chocolates as a present, and not sound ungrateful?
Q. So, on my birthday my boyfriend (of about 9 months) bought me chocolates, along with taking me out for dinner and dessert. I enjoyed it, afterwards we spent some time together on the beach and I acknowledge he did spend a fair amount of money on...
A. 29 October 2014: hi i know that feeling. its alright. just slowly and very casually discuss this topic wd him. he will understand. nd if u said that he is bad at biying gifts probably thats what stopping him from buying a gift. tell him after some time if ur bday ... (read in full...)
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