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She thinks we're more like best friends and that the relationship won't work!

Q.   I'm a little confused. My girlfirend has told me that she loves me but is not in love with me and that we are more like best friends and that she doesn't think the relationship will work. This is after asking me if I eventually wanted to get married ...

A.   11 June 2007: Girls love to be loved! She is asking you those questions to keep you around! She knows that you have feelings for her and she probably loves it. I'm sorry to say but she probably doesn't want a relationship with you. Girls with low self esteam like ... (read in full...)

He's checking out women on dating sites! Should I leave?

Q.   hello i met my boyfriend online, we have been together for six months. i recently found out he had been checking out single females on a dating site! i am terribly hurt by his action.when i asked him why, he replied he loves me, was sorry and wa...

A.   11 June 2007: Don't leave just yet. Six months is a long time but some people are afraid of commitment and it may take them longer to realize that they really are serious about someone. He may feel trapped. Possibly you both are getting to serious to soon. He may ... (read in full...)

He says to me "I wish you were dead"... !

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 yrs calls me names like schizo, stupid, and sometimes when he really tempers up he says " I wish you were dead". He had agression and anger problems, and it flares up on me because I dont stand up for myself and I keep it all ...

A.   11 June 2007: If I were you, I would not continue a relationship with this man. He is mentally abusing you! Signs of physical abuse are also starting to show. Squeezing your hand until it hurts doesn't seem like THAT big of a deal but once he gets more ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want a relationship over the summer! I'm so upset--what should I do?

Q.   hey there people,im in a bit of a dilemma :0( iv met what i thought was the perfect guy at uni. He has a lways been with lots of girls but always liked me apparantly. Normally when he goes out, he kisses loads of girls but al hisf friends say that ...

A.   10 June 2007: Personally I think this is a hint to you. Possibly it's not supposed to be but it should be. He is bored. He may have done those sweet things but in reality any guy can do that if he thinks about it. Trust me if he was perfect for you he wouldn't ... (read in full...)

I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower.

Q.   I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower. when i got the chance t look through her phone i saw text messages to another guy. now she claims that her and this guy are just ...

A.   10 June 2007: I'm sorry did you say that you THINK she is cheating on you? If she is talking to this guy more than you.....SHE'S CHEATING ON YOU! Possibly her and this boy have not yet admitted to eachother that they "like" one another so your girlfriend thinks ... (read in full...)

Is he into me or into my friend?? This driving me crazy--what should I do?

Q.   oki..i ave no idea if he likes mi like sometimes like i tthink hes into my friend but sometimes i think hes into mi??? like sometimes he sits closer to her and sometimes he sits beside me and like it doesnt make sense i want to no whats going inside ...

A.   10 June 2007:  This boy is a PLAYER. These are the kind of boys you stay away from. He's trouble. I'm sure that both you and your friend are very pretty. That is exactly why he is going after both of you! I would suggest that both you and your friend move on! ... (read in full...)

What does the expression the "tie that binds" mean in a relationship?

Q.   what does "tie that binds" mean in a relationship? Iam in a relationship of which I dreamt would tie but never bind. ...

A.   10 June 2007: In this saying you are "tied" because of marriage but "bound" by love. Divorce is a common thing these days. As a practicing Catholic, I personally think to common. The saying it is saying that marriage is the commitment that completely seals the ... (read in full...)

He was a serial cheat but things changed with us...until recently!!!

Q.   hi, I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Before we were a couple we were in the same circle of friends for also a year and i knew his ex girlfriend. I know he was a serial cheat and a womaniser when we were bot...

A.   10 June 2007:  Once a cheat always a cheat. I'm sorry to say but this guy most likely is cheating on you. Let me put it this way. If you heard that this one dog was always bitting people, would you pet that dog? Probably not because that dog has a history of ... (read in full...)

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