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writes:hi, I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Before we were a couple we were in the same circle of friends for also a year and i knew his ex girlfriend. I know he was a serial cheat and a womaniser when we were both single but he seemed really serious about me and changed his ways when we got together. He wasnt bothered about going clubbing anymore and we swapped for nights out together or cosy nights in.However, recently things have stated 2 change. I dont feel he is as commited as before, he hardly ever calls or txts me he says its because hes busy at wrok or hasnt had time but then i find out he has been texting and calling friends, especialy female ones and im feeling very suspicious about it. He's not as affectionate with me ive asked him if he wants to break up or cool things down and he said no, hes extremely jealous of me being away from him with my frinds and i really feel like im stuck in a rut.
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reader, thurdmusketeer  +, writes (10 June 2007):
Once a cheat always a cheat. I'm sorry to say but this guy most likely is cheating on you. Let me put it this way. If you heard that this one dog was always bitting people, would you pet that dog? Probably not because that dog has a history of bad behavior. Just like your boyfriend. He has a history of bad behavior! Your boyfriend didn't cheat on you at first because he wanted you to stay. If you thought he changed his ways you won't suspect it later, right! Wrong. Boys don't give we chics enough credit! They think that they are out playing us when they do stuff like that! Once a boyfriend cheats he probably won't stop. Reasoning for obsessive cheating is they get comfortable with it! It's as simple as that! When they cheat on you or a friend and don't get caught for a length of time they think it's fun! They feel powerful because they can get away with whatever they want. All they need is a few weeks of doing it then bam! They are completely unaware of your feelings!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (9 June 2007):
 I realise you probably really like this man (if he can call himself that) but why wasre your time and energy on someone you will never be able to 100% trust?
Do your self a favour and get rid of him and find someone that you can trust and who will want to contact and stay faithful to you.
Take care.xx.
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