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I won't be naked without the lights off!

Q.   I had an affair with a guy. this guy i loved him so much. The first time we met i was really shy to look at him in such a way that i could not even take off my clothes when the light was on. I will just wait until the light was off thats when i will ...

A.   5 November 2009: This is a true story - your post made me remember this. I don't know which of us felt the worse when this happened, but we got through it and had a delightful affair. The story - I teach music, one of my students was a very fun woman - bright, ... (read in full...)

I've never kissed before and don't know how to do it!

Q.   ok the guy i have liked forr aggess has asked me out and he is my first boyfriend....well this is kindof embaressing but i have never kissed anyone before and i dont want him to think i am a rubbish kisser...so how do you kiss? ...

A.   5 November 2009: ok sweetie, the other answer had a bit of useful info, but lets flesh it out a bit. The actual kiss itself involves a lot of stuff you'll enjoy. You know how you hold your lips/mouth when sucking a straw? That's the exact same way to kiss! Just ... (read in full...)

Its been a year, why can't I forget him?

Q.   ** firstly all names are not real and are made up ** Well, really this all started when i fell for my close friend... let's call him Nick. I went out with him for about 2 1/2 months (October through mid December). me and Nick had a really close re...

A.   1 November 2009: He understood you all right. Way more than you thought! He understood you to the point he evidently was able to have sex with you! A bona fide creep! And, in the process, did a real negative number on your head. Now, having realized that, how do ... (read in full...)

Keep meeting him as a friend?

Q.   my friend and I have known each other for 2 yrs. we hang out together, initially he wanted more than a friendship with me but I had told him I wanted to stay friends only. Then I got involved with another guy but the relationship didn't work out....

A.   1 November 2009: Look sugar, you have a right to enjoy making out! ( It's exciting, fun, etc. )Him leading you on? I must admit that's a switch - it's usually the other way around! I'm guessing you enjoyed the leading as it were! Don't talk to him about wanting ... (read in full...)

Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?

Q.   Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to ...

A.   1 November 2009: To be blunt - he's gone. He simply wants to have his cake - you - and eat it too - her. Do not make the mistake of trying to live for him. Move on, when he does call, be wary. He wants more cake if he calls you. Get as far from the situation as ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I"m not good enough

Q.   Ok, so there's this guy I've liked for around 6 years. But it seems like I've begun to like him more and more. Whenever I'm around him, I just feel so happy and I forget about all of the troubles in my life. He makes me smile more than anyone I know ...

A.   1 November 2009: My you have wound yourself up into a tizzy. Don't even bother to tell him how you feel about him until you've been hanging out with him a long time. When the time comes to tell him, it'll probably be during a clinch. But you are SO much better ... (read in full...)

Foreskin always retracted, is this normal?

Q.   I am not circumcised. I am bit curious to know my condition. My penis' foreskin is always retracted regardless of erect or not. From articles and friends i know that foreskin retracts only when it is erect. Mine was normal i think till i was 17. Is ...

A.   1 November 2009: Yeah, you know if you're uncircumsised. I am too, and my foreskin is always retracted - I, like you I expect, are too large at the tip of the penis for you foresking to cover it. So, what's the problem? ... (read in full...)

Should I stay here for the guy or move and make a new start?

Q.   hi well i am having a serious dialema im 20 and i moved to scotland with my mum when i was 11 but my family still stay down england. my mum has a parner and 2 kids now. i want to move back to england and told them and they said they are fine...

A.   1 November 2009: Move on, darlin'! If the guy is wild enough for you he'll pursue you properly no matter WHERE you wind up. And, why not another country completely? Besides England? Ask HIM where you might go - his response will tell you a lot about his feelings ... (read in full...)

Drama break ups!

Q.   I had a boyfreind then he broke up with me and got back with one of his ex girlfriends and said that he was just using me till his ex girlfriend got back from hoiday, but i still think deep down inside he stills likes me i think hes girlfriend has ...

A.   1 November 2009: leave him alone! Get on with your life and soon enough another will show up! Relax sweetie, you'll find many many guys as you go through life. Just enjoy 'em, don't deliberately hurt 'em!... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best friend I cheated with her boyfriend?

Q.   I am 20 years old the other night my bestfriends boyfiend Matt called me wanted to know if i wanted to come over to his and my bestfriend Dawns apartment. He told me she would be home in about 15 to 20 mins. so i agreed. well to make a long story ...

A.   1 November 2009: Of course he's cheated before and she knows it! Do NOT tell her anything about your having sex with her bf. And it would be best for all to never ever put yourself in a position like that. Of course, I hope you liked it! But, come on, no more!... (read in full...)

My wife of ten years just left me..

Q.   my wife of ten years just left me , she is an overseas worker and im studying law and working at the same time, she stays abroad only for 10 months she has been going there for 3 years now in the middle east, she just left me told me she had found ...

A.   1 November 2009: So, besides facing your family, friends and co-workers I have to ask, "why is this a problem?" You can easily ( believe it or not) find another woman or women, and if smart will not marry a one of them. Unless you want kids, then I think you migh... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin if he didn't come inside me?

Q.   Some of my friends say i am still a virgin cause he didn't cum inside me. But it still went in. Am i virgin or not is he a virgin or not...

A.   1 November 2009: You are no longer a virgin. Realize also, men cum a bit before the big explosion, so you received at least a little cum from him!... (read in full...)

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