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writes:my wife of ten years just left me , she is an overseas worker and im studying law and working at the same time, she stays abroad only for 10 months she has been going there for 3 years now in the middle east, she just left me told me she had found somone. i was devastated because we were happy together but later found out about her secret life even when she was still here she is an ambitious goal orinted person i am the simple understanding and happy about the little things . Can you help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): Its not worth it with a cheating wife..move on..she is a bitch and will always be a bitch....hope this helps as long as you have no kids...my wife left me after 10years and took my two kids and now I cant even speak to them...this is life and I am in a difficult situation cause I have kids otherwise I would tell her good luck Bitch!!!!. hope this helps Bro
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): No, I can't help you. It's sad but sometimes life craps on you. The best thing you can do is keep on keeping on and things will get better eventually. Maybe things wont work out with her new relationship, or maybe they will, but by the time she finds out, you will have moved on. Good luck, be strong. X
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reader, the bear  +, writes (1 November 2009):
So, besides facing your family, friends and co-workers I have to ask, "why is this a problem?" You can easily
( believe it or not) find another woman or women, and if smart will not marry a one of them. Unless you want kids, then I think you might talk that over with your local shrink. Kids get in the way of everything, and after your wife has given birth, you will be ignored sexually for months. So enjoy your freedom by just relaxing, enjoy a hobby or two - I play music, write, fly r. c. airplanes, hike, etc. And do NOT wait for a female to join in. Just bide your time and soon enough another one will come along. And, will be quite willing to please you sexually. I'm waaaaaay older than you, ugly, do not make much money and have never lacked female compainship. I just always live my life and, presto, another always shows up. Don't stress over it, get your life in order re the things you yourself want to do, then do them. You're now free to actually support your own self hood! Enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): I am sorry for your loss and pain, sir.
Unfortunately, there is no way to MAKE someone want to be with you! My wife (of 13 years) left me for similar reasons (ambition, dissatisfaction with my "pace of life")...
All I can say is: you are NOT alone! Many of us have been there...and survived...and YOU CAN TOO! There IS someone else out there for you...you just have to have the patience and confidence to look!
Don't lose hope, and don't be too hard on yourself! Take time out...take care of/pamper yourself...and then get back out there and find a good woman!!!!
Good luck, we're rooting for you!
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