Heartbroken after a devastating loss, how can I get my friends and family to back off?
Q. Hey everyone, My life has taken sucha downfall,I'm heart broken and I'm unable to put the pieces together! Background:I 'was' dating this guy I met in high school,as we grew up got jobs we decided to move in together,he was my life,my best fri...
A. 17 April 2013: First of all i am so sorry for your loss. I know that losing someone you love is beyond terrible, so please look after yourself.
I dont know the full extent of what happened with the accident but whatever happened i hope you realise that you are ... (read in full...)
How do I date when I go out expecting the worst? Girls have hurt me in the past and laughed behind my back about my penis size.
Q. I am 23 years old so I know it wont grow anymore. I am so embarrassed to have sex or even to show myself to a girl when the time comes. I have 4 inch long and 4.5 inch girth penis when erect. I am afraid girls might laugh at me during or afterwards. ...
A. 18 August 2012: Try to go out with confidence and a bit more self respect. these girls you have previously seen are obviously shallow, besides thats not even a bad size, i dont know why they act that way?
dont worry at all about the bedroom, you need to find a g... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to be FWB because she says she'll want to get back with me. Does this mean she has feelings for me?
Q. My gf and I were dating for 5 years, in secret, because she didnt want anyone to know. She ended it in January because she said it wasnt working. We still in contact and yesterday we had a long chat about sex and becoming friends with benefits. S...
A. 18 August 2012: she might have feelings for you, but sex can always bring out caring emotions for the one your with and if shes trying to fully leave you, then being fwb will just confuse what shes trying to do.
just like cigarettes, if your quitting and catch th... (read in full...)
He picked his Mistress over me, but still wants to see me.
Q. we are married for three years total we were together was 7 years. recently he cheated on me and now she choose the mistress than us. but he wants to talk to me and see us and spend time with us more often. but i said no and he beg. my question is...
A. 18 August 2012: its because he wants to have his cake and eat it.
stick to your guns, and dont go back to this guy, to give up 7 years for a moments weakness is pathetic and you can do better.
if you really want to try again then go for it, but it rarely wo... (read in full...)
I can't be myself without losing him!
Q. A few weeks ago a lady posted the great post about not being able to be herself anymore. This is the situation with me. For about 3 years my husband has been very unhappy with me always saying that I am difficult, nasty etc etc. Because I knew he ...
A. 12 August 2012: i used to have a partner, who at the time was my first real love, and because of this i tried to do everything right because i adored him, whatever he asked or needed, i would change myself to be that way to make him happy. because i thought the ... (read in full...)
After asking me to leave and uprooting my life, now b/f wants me to come back!
Q. hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over two years. Recently he asked me to leave because he needed time to think about what he wanted. He has asked me to leave and come back various times in the past aswell. But this time i ...
A. 26 July 2012: Thanks so much to all who replied, what you have said has made a lot of sense, and now i can use your advice properly.
thank you... (read in full...)
Confused boyfriend? Or is he just making me wait to be dumped?
Q. Hi all, My boyfriend of 4 months has recently been acting weird (the past 2 weeks). He hasn't shown any affection, he has been cancelling plans to see me and he has avoided calls, simply texting me that he needs to think and that he needs space. ...
A. 14 July 2012: Hello,
Let him have his space, he might be confused about how he feels and just need to sort it out in his mind.
It sounds like he does care for you. But i understand being left in the dark isnt nice.
If you need to, just say to him that... (read in full...)
Is it ok to only want sex?
Q. Is it ok to only want sex? I mean I see that women are often irritated because the new guy they just met only seems to be interested in sex. What's wrong with that? ...
A. 27 June 2012: hi there,
not all women are like that, i myself dont want commitment at the moment, and im only interested in the sex.
its the perfect thing for me at this time.
if youve just met the person then its just not logical for her to suddenly assu... (read in full...)
Why am I never good enough?
Q. He left me and I'm feeling so heavy. I really do love him but he doesn't feel the same way and it hurts. The last time a guy left me he left me for my best friend of whom he's engaged to and now this guy left me. It makes me feel like I'm not good ...
A. 12 June 2012: im going through the same thing at the moment, and nothing seems to make the pain go away.
but you have to look after yourself, and that means believing that you are good enough, its just these guys werent right for you.
nothing i say will mak... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says a condom is enough, I don't agree
Q. Me and my girlfriend are wanting to have sex, is a condom safe enough on it's own. She doesn't want to go on the pill, she says a condom is safe enough but I am a little concerned....
A. 3 June 2012: hi there,
the condom does work quite well, especially against std's so its always a good idea to use them.
but they aren't perfect, put it this way my parents used the condom and the pill together and i still appeared!
im not trying to pani... (read in full...)
I feel like a freak because I don't want children!
Q. Is it weird that I don't want children? Sometimes I feel like a freak. All the women in my family are VERY fertile, they all have kids and most started at young ages. Even all the men in my family have or want children. So when I tell my mother and ...
A. 13 April 2012: Hello, Dont let yourself feel this way, there are plenty of women just like you. Im the same. My family all look at me strangely when i say i dont want children, my dad especially cant believe it because he loves children so much, they all do! so ... (read in full...)
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