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writes:My gf and I were dating for 5 years, in secret, because she didnt want anyone to know. She ended it in January because she said it wasnt working.We still in contact and yesterday we had a long chat about sex and becoming friends with benefits. She said she couldnt have sex with me because she knows she will change her mind and want to get back with me.Does this mean she still has feelings for me?I want to get back but she wont
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reader, Tez7 +, writes (18 August 2012):
she might have feelings for you, but sex can always bring out caring emotions for the one your with and if shes trying to fully leave you, then being fwb will just confuse what shes trying to do.
just like cigarettes, if your quitting and catch the smell of one then you want it. and having it would ruin what youve tried to do. (hope that makes sense.)
i would say respect her wishes and just be friends. if you can then look for someone who does want you.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2012): she might still have feeligs for you. but it is hard to tell. maybe you two should try to "hang out" once or twice and see where it goes
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (17 August 2012):
 Yes she has feelings for you. If you want to get back with her you better offer more than just casual sex because that (especially for an ex) is a real slap in the face.
There must be another reason why she doesn't want people to know she dated you...and maybe the thought of going back to dating in secret is a bridge too far.
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