Should I "accidentally" bump into him and see if we can still be friends?
Q. We were together for a couple of months. It gets complicated but basically he didnt want to be tied down in a relationship so he broke up with me. He insisted that we remain friends and we hung out a few times since the break up. He would make plans ...
A. 20 February 2009: Probably not as you've said that you dont want a relationship with him and think if you became mates things would get blurred again. How would you feel if he tried to kiss you etc? Might totally confuse you. if he really likes you then he'll get in ... (read in full...)
Is he still interested? Or are we just going to be mates?
Q. hi just to give you an update regarding my questions rwith lad who i met who said was too busy. I bumped into him last night while out on the town celebrating my promotion. He walked into a bar on his own looking for his mates, my friends said tha...
A. 8 February 2009: hi hes just started as a fireman so work 2 day, 2 night shifts and then 4 days off... (read in full...)
First date blues
Q. I'm a 33 year from a big US city who is recently single...just ended a 4 year relationship..I'm a very social guy, funny, educated, in shape, ect... I'm just getting back into the dating scene and I absolutely hate it! I was recently set up ...
A. 8 February 2009: not necessarily she could have been waiting for you to bring the subject of food up and suggest somewhere to go to eat, she might have thought you werent interested. Nah reckon if she wasnt interested she wouldnt texted you and when you said you got ... (read in full...)
First date blues
Q. I'm a 33 year from a big US city who is recently single...just ended a 4 year relationship..I'm a very social guy, funny, educated, in shape, ect... I'm just getting back into the dating scene and I absolutely hate it! I was recently set up ...
A. 8 February 2009: Hi 2 hours is good going, im sure if she didnt like you that she would have left sooner. Dont think she would have texted you half way home either. Maybe she just meant that there was no way you would beat her at pool. Why dont you contact her and ... (read in full...)
Texting the Male
Q. I have recently read many responses to many ladies' concern of why their boyfriends or signifcant others don't respond to their text and how it makes them feel... Well, what i am about to write could be considered a tip to all those lady texters out ...
A. 4 February 2009: thanks for this, thing is i never know whether guys are interested or not... (read in full...)
I really need to know if you think he’s just using me for sex and if I should move on!
Q. Ok well I meet this guy and he’s really sweet and the first day I meet him we went out on that same day and I think we hit it off, and then we went out 2 days in a row after that, I think I really like him but it’s so confusing because he said he ...
A. 4 February 2009: hi know your prob going to be upset but is he the bloke for you if using drugs. He has said doesnt want anything serious so think you should find someone better, know it'll prob hurt me telling you but you deserve better.
What kind of bloke lets... (read in full...)
Is my paranoia sabotaging my relationship?
Q. Right well let me just start with something about myself. I have cripplingly low confidence. Seriously, it is abnormally bad. I am so harsh on myself that it's crazy. I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and I am on antidepressants to ...
A. 27 January 2009: hiya I know that is hard to forget the past, problem i have also. I have had really bad and abusive relationships etc which have left me insecure and paranoid. I met a brilliant new bloke and really liked him. Thing is i was still bit paranoi... (read in full...)
Is he interested--no contact for 3 weeks but then says yes to an invitation
Q. hi - is this guy interested? i was introduced to this really great guy - he was in regular touch and we met up for lunch, but then he didnt call for three weeks, but when i asked him if he wanted to come this show he said yes and apologised a few ...
A. 25 January 2009: yeah it is, have you got any advice for me... (read in full...)
Is he interested--no contact for 3 weeks but then says yes to an invitation
Q. hi - is this guy interested? i was introduced to this really great guy - he was in regular touch and we met up for lunch, but then he didnt call for three weeks, but when i asked him if he wanted to come this show he said yes and apologised a few ...
A. 25 January 2009: i know feeling was seeing someone and he started shifts as a fireman 2 day shifts (9am to 6pm) and then 2 night shifts (6pm to 9am)and then 4 days off. We were seeing each other nearly every day and he kept in touch. Then he told me was too busy to ... (read in full...)
Is he interested--no contact for 3 weeks but then says yes to an invitation
Q. hi - is this guy interested? i was introduced to this really great guy - he was in regular touch and we met up for lunch, but then he didnt call for three weeks, but when i asked him if he wanted to come this show he said yes and apologised a few ...
A. 25 January 2009: I take you contacted him for him to say yes to your invitation. He may be interested i would just take things slowly with him. He could be genuine and quite shy as some men are or could have been busy. Then again he could have been seeing other ... (read in full...)
Is he interested--no contact for 3 weeks but then says yes to an invitation
Q. hi - is this guy interested? i was introduced to this really great guy - he was in regular touch and we met up for lunch, but then he didnt call for three weeks, but when i asked him if he wanted to come this show he said yes and apologised a few ...
A. 25 January 2009: hi did he say what was going on and how he was busy?... (read in full...)
Busy? Or just lost interest?
Q. Hi i met someone and we wnet on a date. After that we saw each other nearly every day and he kept in contact with me. He started a new job as a fireman which means he has to work shifts. He told me that hes too busy to be seeing anyone at the ...
A. 25 January 2009: Yeah working 2 days (9am til 6pm) 2 night shifts (6pm til 9am)and then gets 4 days off. Dont know if been more demanding than what he thought.
He just said he was too busy to be seeing anyone at the moment and didnt want to upset me but wouldnt ... (read in full...)
If a couple is perfect for each other, then how can one of them go on and find someone else?
Q. Ok recently, I made a huge mistake and I let a girl I've been going out with for 7 months that was perfect for me go for someone else because I thought she lost interest in me and I didn't want to seem alone and really lame. We had a fight and ...
A. 25 January 2009: hi have you tried contacting the girl that you thought was perfect for you, she could be missing you too... (read in full...)
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