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*usi
writes:Hi i met someone and we wnet on a date. After that we saw each other nearly every day and he kept in contact with me. He started a new job as a fireman which means he has to work shifts. He told me that hes too busy to be seeing anyone at the moment. Havent heard from him since should i believe him and or has he just lost intereset? Reply to this Question
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reader, susi +, writes (25 January 2009):
susi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah working 2 days (9am til 6pm) 2 night shifts (6pm til 9am)and then gets 4 days off. Dont know if been more demanding than what he thought.
He just said he was too busy to be seeing anyone at the moment and didnt want to upset me but wouldnt be able to see me that much and wouldnt be fair on me.
Was just nice and civil. Dont want to bother him so thought would leave it down to him. What do you reckon?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): That's a hard one to call Susi, he might not have been prepared for the vigours of being a fireman when he started dating you or there might be something else going on. Have you tried calling him? Is he ignoring you?
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