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*allme2855
writes:Ok recently, I made a huge mistake and I let a girl I've been going out with for 7 months that was perfect for me go for someone else because I thought she lost interest in me and I didn't want to seem alone and really lame. We had a fight and haven’t been talking for over 2 weeks. I know how retarded and really insecure that makes me sound. But now everyone keeps reminding me of what a huge mistake I made by letting her go. I'm always being reminded of how perfect she was for me and how I'll never find anyone more perfect for me. But, if she was the perfect person for me then shouldn't I be the perfect person for her?I always thought that true fate and love would go both ways.So, my question is how can one person be perfect for someone, if the other person can go on with their life and find someone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): You should have talked to her. If you both were still dating, maybe she was waiting for you to talk to her.
Now, that it's all done, she mostly thought you cheated on her, that is what it sounds like. If she thought you cheated on her, then she probably has a reason to want to move on with her life and be happy. If possible, you need to try to talking things out with her, it might not be too late.
Maybe she is just moving on because she thought you did, the same thing you thought when all this started. Go Talk To Her.
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reader, susi +, writes (25 January 2009):
hi have you tried contacting the girl that you thought was perfect for you, she could be missing you too
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): maybe this girl is your soulmatebut not in a romantic way..like your best friend. sometimes we can confuse feelings of being so close with someone and try to get into a relationship with e.g..a best friend, but it doesnt work outwork on being mates at least for now and who knows =)
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