My fiance lied about his past sexual history, and I feel like I can't move past it!
Q. I am 19. I have been with my fiance for 2 years. I love him very much and we're expecting our 1st child. I have never been in a serious relationship before, so from the beginning all I asked of him was to tell me the truth. I was a virgin when I m...
A. 12 August 2005: He is right it is in the past. All that matters is the future for you two. In my experience a lot of people lie about how many people they have slept with. I know I have. The only reason is because a) its non of their business and b) sometimes ... (read in full...)
My husband can't discipline his daughter and it's killing our relationship...
Q. It's come to this...I have a husband of nearly 7 years and he has a daughter (15) who now lives w/ us. Well, since she's moved in w/ us full time, seems like the marriage is seriously on the rocks. We argue constantly about punishments, etc. (this ...
A. 2 August 2005: I was in a very similiar situation and it did killed our relationship. We had been going out for 5 years then his 16 year old moved in. She had major behaviourer problems and my ex partner wouldn't really do anything about it, other than get all ... (read in full...)
He wants to take his ex out to dinner to cheer her up... Am I wrong to object?
Q. My boyf has a female collegue/friend that fancies him and they dated about a year go for a couple of weeks. He claims that she wasn't right for him. She is now seeing and sleeping with 2 men at the same time. He feels a little sorry for her as she ...
A. 1 August 2005: This is definitely a hard one for you. But at the end of the day he is with you and not her. If she still fancies him and if he fancied her, then he would be with her. My current boyfriend still sees he last two exes. One is still interested in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to try oral sex, but I can't get past my revulsion...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and only in the last week or so, he's voiced his desire to attempt oral sex. The act has no appeal to me whatsoever and I am highly reluctant to attempt it. He says that whatever I decide w...
A. 1 August 2005: You need to give it a go. How do you really know if you will or will not enjoy it until you try. To be fair on him and yourself you need to give it a go. Remember relationships are about compromise. It sounds like you have a great guy that if ... (read in full...)
I love him, but he wants to explore other options while he's at college...
Q. I met the fella of my dreams. He is 18 and I am 24. He starts college on August 1st and now decides he wants to go and be free while he is school to do whatever he wants. He wants us to just be friends and let our relationship grow. I don't ha...
A. 1 August 2005: If you are the only woman for him and he loves you then he wouldn't want to be free to see what life can offer him. He would want to be with you. You need to let him go and never look back. Come on think..... would you ever let go someone you ... (read in full...)
I want to trust her, but we've been apart for a few months now...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been having a long distance relationship for a few months now and we speak on the phone twice a day. I'm moving to where she is very soon but I cannot help but feel insecure in that she may have done something while I have ...
A. 28 July 2005: You say that you trust her completely so obviously its not that you don't trust her its that you are very insecure. If that is the case, then you need to work out why you feel insecure and fix it. At the end of the day you have to trust her until ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is jealous and clingy and she won't let me go anywhere without her...
Q. My girlfriend is so clingy I can't do anything without her, and when I say I want to go out she cries. So I stay in cos I feel bad. She is also very very very jelous and even deletes my mates' (that are girls) mobile numbers. What do I do?...
A. 22 July 2005: I myself in the past have been kind of like your girlfriend and it does come down to the fact she is insecure. If you do love her and really want the relationship to work then I suggest that you spend the next couple of weeks really showing her how ... (read in full...)
Is the spark gone from our relationship? All I do is chase him and he doesn't seem to care...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him deeply. The problem is that I do way too much for him and he knows that well and thanks me a lot for that and swears that I'm the most important thing in his life. Unfort...
A. 22 July 2005: Hey. I know this question is old but I would love to know if you followed the advice and if so, did it work. I'm asking because I am in the same situation. I do alot for my man and he knows it too and does thank me but he is now working a lot of ... (read in full...)
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