How can I just be at peace with myself and enjoy this good relationship that I have?
Q. I feel like theres a constant battle about my relationship inside my head ever since the honeymoon phase ended. It's always about the same old thing: he has a good life: good friends, family, good balance between all aspects of life. I'm not so ...
A. 8 June 2011: I really want to not need him as much so that...
I won't have to depend on him so much so that...
I won't need to see him as much and need constant affection so that...
This relationship will stop being the main thing that takes over my... (read in full...)
It feels like I am making most of the effort in this relationship.....
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We do not live together, but we go to the same uni. I feel like I need to see him more than he needs to see me. I think I initiate to spend time more than he does. He usually says yes when I ask, and ...
A. 8 June 2011: I want to clarify that he does text me often (without me doing it first). He texts me to see what I'm up to or how I'm doing, so I'm pretty sure he cares about me. I just do not understand why he doesn't need to see me, and regularly sees his ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him he's messing up? He only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it
Q. My guy never admits he's wrong in fights. Even though my feelings are really hurt and I am crying and everything, he acts like he didn't do anything wrong. In reality, he did, and he only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it to ...
A. 21 May 2011: Thanks for your input Lovely Sweet Laura. Yeah, what you said totally makes sense. It is a defense mechanism and they are pretty emotionally immature. I have invested a lot in the relationship, and I do not want to leave him just like that. However, ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is boring for me, not for him. Is it fair than I try harder than him?.
Q. I get bored in our relationship from time to time. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Of course, everything was exciting and amazing at the beginning. We also had a distance relationship for a year. This year, however, I transferred to his ...
A. 27 April 2011: Thank you. I think that I am definitely be okay with him not doing what I expect. As long as he loves and cares for me, that's all that matters. I think I just had the wrong idea of what he should be doing in the relationship and failed to ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I'm always intitiating spending time with my bf...did he just get used to me doing that? Or is it something else?
Q. I always have to initiate hanging out with my boyfriend. He does it probably only 20% of the time, while I ask to hang out 80% of the time. We have been together for 2 years, and we do not live together, but we go to the same school. Like if I don't ...
A. 27 April 2011: thank you so much for your input. I think that everything else in our relationship is fine, and maybe this little issue shouldn't be considered a problem since he treats me well and is consistent with texting and phoning me. I would love it if he ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is boring for me, not for him. Is it fair than I try harder than him?.
Q. I get bored in our relationship from time to time. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Of course, everything was exciting and amazing at the beginning. We also had a distance relationship for a year. This year, however, I transferred to his ...
A. 26 April 2011: I don't think he goes out of his way much with physical acts unless it's a special occasion, since we don't live together. He does text me and ask how I'm doing often and calls me to talk several nights out of the week. He doesn't initiate to hang ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my bf to want me to spit on him before giving him oral sex?
Q. When giving my boyfriend a bj he always tells me to spit on it and make it really wet. Well I'm not down with making it wet. Thinking about it makes me wont to puke. I just want to know why I dont enjoy spit and why it grosses me out to think about ...
A. 23 April 2011: It's supposed to be really wet. That's how most guys like to receive oral sex. However, if you don't feel comfortable with that, let him know. You shouldn't force yourself to do something you dislike. I suggest you give it a few tries, and maybe you ... (read in full...)
She's sure I cheated when I didn't
Q. my gf have been together for 1 year and 9 months now and she truly believes i cheated on her when i know i didn't but i can't back up my story and its ruining our relationship. i love her and would never hurt her but i have no idea what to do. ...
A. 22 April 2011: There seems to be a trust issue with her. Are you sure you're not doing anything that might seem suspicious to her? If you're doing everything to reassure her that you're not, then you should really tell her that in the relationship, trust is ... (read in full...)
Ex stringing me along while he has a g/f?!
Q. long story short my ex and i broke up 8 almost 9 months ago ever since its been on and off with us talking hanging, out telling me he wants me hook ups, dates ect. So recently I had asked if he was talking to anyone else.. he replyed ya, arent you ...
A. 22 April 2011: It sounds like your ex is playing games with both of you. I would just stop the hookups/dates and maybe just remain plain friends with him. Better yet, don't even talk to him that much anymore, if that's a possibility for you. It's not fair to you ... (read in full...)
How do I keep routineness from taking over in our relationship?
Q. Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We have a really great relationship, with so many fun times. We even went through a year of long distance relationship, when I was at another school far away. We went through a lot. G...
A. 22 April 2011: Thank you so much, Minou! I am always making efforts to keep our love alive. I am also trying to adjust. I just hope that he's making the same efforts because sometimes he tends to get absorbed in his own daily routine and busy life, which is fine ... (read in full...)
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