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Should I accept that he receives sexual pictures from other men??

Q.   hi, i have a bit of a problem. Me and my partner are in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 18 months and 6 months ago i moved to a different country to work. We love each other more than anything, we see each other about twic...

A.   13 December 2007: The simple answer is, it is clearly bothering you so yes he has gone too far and no, you shouldn't have to accept it. If he loves you as he professes to, then he would want to avoid hurting you, so regardless of whether the actual issue is right or ... (read in full...)

I think I have low self-esteem. Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   i simply asked my freinds if you could what would you change about your self (looks wise) i said i would change a lot of things. my freinds say i was saying that to get compliments on my looks which i honestly wasnt i was asking that to see how they...

A.   13 December 2007: I have a very similar problem. I have some serious issues with the way I look. My friends reassure me and tell me that I am attractive, but I don't believe them, because they are my friends they have to say nice things, maybe they even believe them ... (read in full...)

My gf will only watch girl on girl porn, does this mean shes bi??

Q.   My girlfriend and i watch porn about once every three months, however she will only watch all girl on girl she gets very hot horny and we have the best sex so im not complaning. Does this mean shes bi? She said shes not. ...

A.   13 December 2007: Women generally do not get turned on by images, their main pleasure is tactile, whereas for men it is visual. Because of this, women do not generally watch porn nearly as much as men, simply because it does not "do anything" for them. Also, other ... (read in full...)

I've just realized I'm bisexual, and there's a long distance guy who wants me to be his boyfriend. But will that be too hard?

Q.   i just recently realised that i'm bi and me (16) and this guy in another state(14) REALLY like each other and he wants me to be his boyfriend. I really don't know what to do because i've never done the whole long distance thing or the whole boyfrien...

A.   13 December 2007: I think this all comes down to how well you know the guy. Long distance relationships in my experience only survive when the people involved have been together for a few years prior to being split up, often they were friends before they got ... (read in full...)

I think I may be gay or bi... but how do I find another man to find out?

Q.   Hey, Been thinking a lot lately, and can't stop thinking about doing somehting with another guy. Don't know if I really want to have sex yet or anything, but I've really fantasized a lot about giving a blowjobto another guy, and also curious abo...

A.   13 December 2007: You don't need to experiment or try things out to find out if you are gay or bi, or what you're into. First off, you know who you are attracted to and what turns you on, and secondly, gay, bi, straight are just labels. You don't have to take on a ... (read in full...)

Is my new best friend in love with me?

Q.   me and a guy have just became best friends, im 17 and so is he but i dont know weather he is bi or straight, he has a g.f but is he attracted to me? i like him but i dont know if he likes me back i think he does because lately he has started:...

A.   12 December 2007: You may already have spoken to your friend but if not, I really urge you to be careful what you read into the way he is acting towards you. Yes he might be bisexual or even gay and struggling with coming to terms with his sexuality, and he may or ... (read in full...)

My friend thinks I'm straight, but I'm in love with her!

Q.   I think I've always been bi.Since starting soccer(the lesbian day hangout where i'm from)I've made alot of lesbian freinds. I'm a major tom-boy so most people assume I'm gay, and I tell them I'm not. I recently kissed a girl, and it just felt ...

A.   12 December 2007: Sounds like a difficult situation. I might be reading too much into this, but it sounds to me that she doesn't believe you are straight. If she thinks you are gay then it would explain why she approved of you kissing a girl, and disapproved of you ... (read in full...)

I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.

Q.   Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed ...

A.   10 July 2007: First of all, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20.. I'm one and I'm 21, I have friends who are in their mid 20's who are still virgins. I like to think it shows a strength of character and an integrity rather than a deficiency or that ... (read in full...)

I hate porn and no guy I am with is going to look at it!

Q.   Are there an men who would be satisfied with one female sexualy? Is this too much to ask? I mean not be interested in porn etc...I ask this because I am considering whether to start dating again..Frankly Im very against porn for political and ...

A.   25 June 2007: The trouble for a lot of guys is that porn is addictive. I know because I used to watch it excessively. Quite quickly (I'm 21 now) I just found the situations so ridiculous and fake and uninspiring I just couldn't be bothered with it any more. ... (read in full...)

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