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writes:My girlfriend and i watch porn about once every three months, however she will only watch all girl on girl she gets very hot horny and we have the best sex so im not complaning. Does this mean shes bi? She said shes not.
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reader, natalieejanex  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 no, porn doesn't determine a sexuality in a person, you are born a certain way and its very clear that she's straight. many straight people watch gay/lesbian porn just because they think its "hot", it turns them on and gets them off. that is all, so don't worry.
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reader, Stupid Lullabies +, writes (13 December 2007):
Women generally do not get turned on by images, their main pleasure is tactile, whereas for men it is visual. Because of this, women do not generally watch porn nearly as much as men, simply because it does not "do anything" for them. Also, other men in sexual situations are often regarded as threatening or intimidating subconciously by women, so lesbian porn is much "safer" and more familiar, which makes it more accessible to women than male-female porn. Thirdly as has already been mentioned, the female form is generally more aesthetically pleasing than the male body, so all in all I wouldn't say that your girlfriend bi per se, perhaps if she really enjoys it she might have some curiousity in that direction, but if she is happy with you and enjoys what you do together and you are both satisfied then is there a problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): She is definitely bi. A straight woman gets turned on by a penis not by lesbians. That is what it means to be "straight." So if you are being turned on by women more than by men then let's face it, you are either a lesbian or bi. I don't think that women have a more attractive form than men. In fact I think men are hot as hell. I am taking ancient greek art this semester and when I look at those classical greek sculptures and murals of naked men with bulging biceps and their perfect torsos and naked penises I get so turned on. Of course I would never say this out loud cause guys have such big heads anyways. Unfortunately in porn, guys are so gross and ugly. So that's why the girls probably look better. But even girls are gross. They look so low class. Ugh. They are so gross. Like they're all shaved and fake looking and ugh. People look better when they are natural. Like when I go down to the beach and I see a guy with his shirt off and you can tell he is a surfer cause his abs are real toned, its just sexy. Yeah so your girl is bi. But who cares?? The sex is good so just go with it. She loves you so don't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): oh yeah she has bisexual tendencies but that doesn't mean she has ever acted on them past the point of looking at lesbian porn. But for sure she is attracted to women. My best friend became bisexual when she was 20 or so. I would have never known in a million years. She always had boyfriends. I asked her about how it happened and she said that when she was a little girl she had always felt sexually attracted to girls. But she always wanted boys as a boyfriend. She said that as she got older she learned that it was "wrong" to like girls. So I guess out of shame she repressed her feelings for a long time. She dated a couple of girls but eventually kind of outgrew that and dates guys now. Look obviously your girlfriend loves you but I guess this is a side to her that you are going to have to accept if you want to be with her. I mean she is attracted to women. But she is attracted to you too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): I am a straight female who doesn't like looking at men in porn either. I find the male body to be more "funny' naked than attractive. Mens bodies just ARE NOT sexy to me ESPECIALLY not when they are having sex. The female form is MUCH MORE ATTRACTIVE than the male form. That's why I don't watch porn with guys in it because it's just not attractive to see.But I still love my boyfriend and I think he is very sexy but it's just that mens bodies and genitals arent generally fun to look at if you want to be aroused.
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (1 December 2007):
 it is possable that she is bi, but then most women are to some extent.
I personally dont like straight porn, as I dont find the male organ particularly attractive, I love what it does, I love my hubs one, but I dont relish looking at it, especially not seeing close up of it going in and out, ewww.
But the girl on girl is usally a lot gentler, even with toys involved. It sets off the fantasies in men and women alike, though I find watching these more enjoyable, or even fascinating to watch, than straight porn, it doesntmean I want to actually sleep with another woman.
So though it is possable she may well be bi, its far more likely that she simply doesnt enjoy seeing the guys in the straiht porn shows.
Take care, I sicerely hope that helps.
Issy xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (1 December 2007):
 It just means she doesnt want to watch men having sex maybe she feels that it would some how betray you or make you feel uncomfortable and maybe she just does it cause she knows you get horny watching girls and she is trying to please you, if she says she isnt bi then believe her.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (1 December 2007):
if shes says shes not then shes probably not.
some women get horny watching girl on girl but it doesnt mean theyre lesbian or bi.
the main thing is she loves you and i guess you get great sex!!
please feel free to mail me if you have anything you want to talk about.
lol
ellie
xxx
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reader, hugs2muchgal +, writes (1 December 2007):
 She might not be. I wouldn't know for sure (since I do not watch porn) but maybe it turns her on because from what my male friends have told me, girl/on girl is more about oral usually then penetration.
For her, the idea of watching another man naked may also be a turn off (a good thing). In straight porn it's probabaly more about the male and his satisfaction in penetrating then the women's pleasure and orgasm. Maybe she can use her imagination better on lesbian porn for what she wants -- ie oral, fondling, etc. Who knows? But I'd believe her if she says she is not bi. Just enjoy the after math of watching it together ;)
Hugs
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