I don't want sex, but I can't say no and I can't stop him
Q. i think my boyfriends bribing me and i really dont know what to do about it. ive been with him for nearly 6 months and we have been sexually active for just over two, but its weird. i didnt feel like i was ready for a sexual relationship at the time ...
A. 19 July 2008: Hey you
Text him tell him you can't make tonight & you'll post his top back to him - he can give it to his next victim. HE IS USING YOU DUMP HIM - tell him you will make his life hell if he tries to make it difficult for you to leave by doing hi... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my controlling mom...at my age?
Q. Hi,I'm a 33 year old female and I'm at my wits end with my controlling mother!! I never seem do do anything right no matter how hard I try and basically my life should revolve around her. Growing up I spent a lot of time with my time with my mum...
A. 2 November 2007: Hey you
Wow! You have to be assertive on this one - tell your mom politely but firmly that actually it is her life that is now full of shit & she used to be a better mother! She is obviously struggling to let go, and i feel for that but this is ... (read in full...)
Every day there's a insult from my gf of 3 yrs or her kids. Should I break up?
Q. my girlfriend of 3 yrs will only give about 30%, wont come to my house i have to go there. always tells me how wrong iam and that her and her kids are right, ALWAYS, every single thing is done when she says, its not what WE can do to make this work, ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hey you
You should move on i think - the fact that this woman is looking out for her kids is natural and to be expected if you are critising them then she is right to tell you you are wrong in front of them, however if she is just teaching... (read in full...)
My partner of 11 yrs cheated but said she's emotionally dead so it didn't matter. She also refused sex for the past yr, for no reason.
Q. my partner of 11 years says she loves me but does not want sex,no reason given,she also says she feels emotionally dead.this has been like this for the past year and led to many arguments where we both throw things from the past at each other,this ...
A. 2 November 2007: Wake up & smell the coffee huni - she does have sexual feelings just not for you! You need to move on - this isn't your fault you have just grown apart - try showing an interest in other women - if she's jealous she has chemistry if not its over ... (read in full...)
Any ideas of how to finish with someone who won't take no for answer?
Q. I want to finsh with my boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. The thing is I have tried so many times in the past but he manipulates me into staying with him. I'm fed up of the way he treats me. He tries to dictate my life and thinks he's ...
A. 1 November 2007: I've got the answer
you tell the guy when he talks to you about cheating that to be fair u have said enough times that u don't want to be in the relationship so therefore it wouldn't be cheating as you are no longer emotionally attatched to him, ... (read in full...)
Any ideas of how to finish with someone who won't take no for answer?
Q. I want to finsh with my boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. The thing is I have tried so many times in the past but he manipulates me into staying with him. I'm fed up of the way he treats me. He tries to dictate my life and thinks he's ...
A. 1 November 2007: I've got the answer
you tell the guy when he talks to you about cheating that to be fair u have said enough times that u don't want to be in the relationship so therefore it wouldn't be cheating as you are no longer emotionally attatched to him, ... (read in full...)
I looked through my boyfriends phone and found out more than I wanted to know.
Q. Ok here's the deal- I've been w/my boyfriend for almost a year now. I love him more than anything and I want to trust him, but sometimes I get that feeling in my gut that something's off. Like he'll be sitting there just texting away on his phon...
A. 1 November 2007: Richard is obviously much nicer than me.......dump him, the guys is playing games with you and you don't need it - be secretive with your phone & text your friends more.. why not? i know you love him but he's just biding his time till the next ... (read in full...)
She told me if I keep telling her that she's cheating on me that she will. She wants me to move with her instead. Why am I insecure?
Q. Hi my name is Paul. Im 23 years old and I have been in a relationship with the love of my life for 3 years.She just moved back to T in july. Lately I have been having these insercurity problems, I think she is cheating on me all the time when she is ...
A. 1 November 2007: Eve
R u for real? Don't call her for a couple of weeks , play her at her own game - this woman is raising his child and you want to start playing games! She would probably welcome a couple of weeks peace instead of having to constantly inte... (read in full...)
Is he board with me?
Q. I'm currently with a man i have been with for over 3 and a half years. and i have never had a problem with this, but yesterday night i busted him looking at all this Drunk chick stuff, like on youtube, "young girl on webcam" showing her ass n shit, ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hey you
I think you should do it too, have a browse & tell him what kind of guys you like etc... play him at his own game a little, don't feel like there is some sexual marathon you have to win so that you don't feel insecure - if the only way... (read in full...)
She cheated and I'm scared of making the wrong decision.
Q. My wife of 5 years has had an affair. I'm devestated, but prepared to forgive (I think). Just one thing I can't get over, I don't want every gorey detail, but when I ask her to explain why she did it, she says. 'I don't know, It just happened...
A. 30 October 2007: Firstly - she is not a dog that needs to be kept on a lead & not rewarded when bad!
if you feel you have to prevent anyone from leaving you or not cheating again you lost them long ago. If you don't wake up every day and know they are there be... (read in full...)
Why do men still call the ex, when they have a new gf? It's odd and disrespectful to call the ex on your way to a banquet with your new gf?
Q. Why do men still call the ex GF, even when they have a new girlfriend. I mean staying cordially is ok, but I think it is odd, and disrespectful to call me on your way to a banquet with your new girlfriend. I also think it is disrespectful to call ...
A. 30 October 2007: Its not - Dump him sista xx... (read in full...)
They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?
Q. My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hey you
You don't have to get this through to them - i think they already know that you are beautiful wich is why, as sick as this is, they do it. Very few people want to be skeletal - look at your mum with your "woman eyes" - did she used to ... (read in full...)
We have just had a baby and now he wants to sleep with other women.
Q. We've been together 2 years. He's been fathering my 4 year old and we just had a baby in August. We bought a house in June. He just told me he wants to sleep with other women for new and different experiences?!?...
A. 30 October 2007: Hey you
Ask him if he wants the new & exciting experience of being kicked to the kerb!!!!! What a loser this guy is - why don't you ask him if you can try a few different Dads for the kids! - how dare he berate & degrade you at this time in your ... (read in full...)
I'm not confident around Women! How do I build my confidence??
Q. I'm a confident person, but whe it comes to women and relationships, I'm awful. I've tried, and I've tried, and I've tried to be confident around women I'm attracted to (even when I fake it) but I always blow it when it comes to the date. A few girl...
A. 30 October 2007: First of all stop thinking so much lol, take it a little easier on yourself so what if your useless around women - you don't have to be perfect -
i don't think dating is old fashioned in terms of sharing an experience with somone wether that is h... (read in full...)
Do you think its wrogn, I'm 15 and my boyfriends 21
Q. everyone makes a big deal about age its only a number ... i know i don't have consent. but our relationship is great. We swore to each other that sexual intercourse wouldn't be brought into it. until i come of age. my mum is fine about it . My dad ...
A. 30 October 2007: I think if he loves you he'll call you when your older,
although i also think you are both really sensible to have had the conversation about sex & that shows that you are both really sensitive to your own situation.
Your Dad is only making y... (read in full...)
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