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Bothered by the idea of losing my Virginity to a non-virgin....

Q.   Hi all, Just gonna be simple about this. I am a 17 year old boy who wants to save my virginity for marriage but I am bothered by the idea of losing my virginity to a non-virgin. I would just feel slighted in that I wasn't their first and they d...

A.   3 May 2011: Thanks to all that responded. All of your answers were insightful. Anyways, I'm just gonna hold out till marriage. In the end if I love the person I'm with, I think I will be able to overcome my conviction if I'm able to have a dialogue and discuss ... (read in full...)

Am I still a considered a virgin if I got fingered...?

Q.   Okay. Im 15 and I was just fingered for the first time. My question is, am I still considered a virgin even though he did finger me?...

A.   2 May 2011: By most conventional standards you would have had to have sexual intercourse to be considered "not a virgin". Since you didn't do that you still are. Hope that helped... (read in full...)

My purity ring is not stopping me feel so turned on. What can I do to slow down these feelings?

Q.   Why am I so turned on when I see my boyfriend? I'm 15, but I've never felt like this before! I know one reason is hormones? Anyways... I've never felt like this with anyone else. It's freaking me out. Maybe another reason is that he told me I turn...

A.   1 May 2011: It's your and his hormones. YouWish covered pretty much all of it but I would not listen to Suggestion #3 by him. Sorry as a guy who wants to wait till marriage for sex I don't put myself in that situation cause I know I can't handle it. I don't ... (read in full...)

How can I make him learn to like me?

Q.   OK, Im 14 but i really like a 19 year old.... I just need advice on to how to make him to learn to like me? Help?...

A.   30 April 2011: To be completely honest with you it really isn't proper for him to date you. As an adult he could get in A LOT of trouble with the law for dating you. Sorry but that's the honest truth. I hope you find someone your age to love.... (read in full...)

Is it pathetic to be 17 and still a virgin?

Q.   Hi all, To start this off let me just say that I'm coming from a small private school so there aren't many girls in my grade. Even when I was at a public school I never got much attention and I don't really know why. I try I really do. I reall...

A.   24 March 2011: Thanks to all who answered. Would have liked to get more responses but whatever. Not trying to sound rude because believe me your answers did give me some degree of hope, a rare thing for me these days. I'm not worried about the virginity as much as ... (read in full...)

Husband of 3 years has started looking at gay porn?

Q.   I have been married for 3 years. Recently I have been noticing gay porn popping up on our computer. I confronted my husband about and we talked about it. He said he doesnt jerk off to it or anything and its just kind of a kinky curiousity thing, but ...

A.   22 March 2011: Make your call on this. If your comfortable with him doing that then don't worry about it. I personally find it strange that a apparently straight male would look at gay porn. I know you don't want to hear this but your husband might be bi, but he ... (read in full...)

Was my teacher genuine or will he forget me while I wait? He told me to cool until I'm no longer a student

Q.   Okay, so I've been crushing on this teacher for a couple of years now, and we've gotten pretty close lately but he's been scolded and he told me we should cool things off for a while because he says he doesn't want to get me in trouble. He said he ...

A.   22 March 2011: I know this probably isn't the thing you want to hear but you really need to cut it off with him. Like SweetSmoochy said he's in a totally different stage in his life than you and it really isn't proper for him to have a relationship with you. He ... (read in full...)

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