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writes:i brokeup with my boyfriend lastthursdy after goin out for 4 weeks but yesterday i found out that only 2 days after splittingup him and mybest friend were goin out, i got really angry. what should i do ?
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (9 April 2009):
 I will be honest there is nothing you can do about this, she obviously is not a true friend and he obviously cant bear to be single for more then 5 minutes.
Your better off without them
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (9 April 2009):
 to be honest she's not really a true friend is she?
i mean i have a rule if any of my friends went out with a guy and broke up and i liked them or they liked me or both i'd NEVER go there because it's rude on your friends it's like a rule of friendship!!
there isn't much you can do really.
they are together.
but you're so young and you will go through many boys in life until you find the right one.
so don't let these two get you down because when he dumps her she'll expect you to be there for her but obviously you're hurt and stuff so you can be the bigger person and just let it pass you by or be silly and have envy.
but trust me he's just the start of many guys he's not the one so don't worry so much but she isn't really a friend i can see why you're hurt.
perhaps talk to her and tell her that it's upset you and why didn't she tell you before?
Hope this helps hun
chin up :)
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reader, Spamalot  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 I have almost the exact same problem as you!
I know how angry you feel and how you want to get revenge really badly on both of them. The most annoying thing that will come up will be their constant expressions of their love etc. in your view, that will make you even angrier.
The best thing to do in this situation is to try your absolute hardest to ignore both of them and try to forget them. It takes a while, and sometimes it doesn't work, but it's the best thing that you can do. Don't try getting revenge on them, otherwise it will only make things worse and draw them closer together, which I'm guessing you don't want.
So in answer to your question, shortly, is ignore and forget about them. Hope it works & good luck! :)
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