I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!
Q. so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....
A. 15 September 2008: To be honest hon if he is 26 years of age and finding pictures of 9-12 year olds arousing that is paedophilia. Whether he pursues it or not is legally irrelevant, thst's why so many men are arrested for simply having images on their computer. He has ... (read in full...)
I'm hesitating because he's my cousin - what should I do?
Q. Okay, i asked this question already but it didn't work :( I need help! I'm in love with my cousin who I've been best friends with for years. We are both disabled with autism and we are both very shy and unconfident when speaking to anyone else exc...
A. 3 September 2008: Hon don't panic too much - you're very young and your hormones are all over the place at this age, disability or not!
It's actually quite unusual for those with autism (are you Aspergers?)to want romantic attachment but it is not so unusual ... (read in full...)
I wrote my boyfriend a letter, about how bad I feel about my weight, and the stress in our relationship, he answered that he does not know what to say, what do I do now?
Q. i recantly posted a question and got a answer so i did actually that and wrote him a letter but after he read it all he said is 'what do you want me to say, i cant say any thing' this is what i put in the letter---- we use to get on loadz before ...
A. 3 September 2008: Hmm,
Hard to tell at moment....
...Ok, he may be the strong silent type. Or he might be a complete bastard.
On the other hand. he might be shocked at the letter and not be sure how to respond - does he usually have a hard time showing... (read in full...)
Is this really love or do I just pity her?
Q. I love with my gf of two years now but I can't forget her past. She told me that she has 20+ partners before me. Worst I know some details of her past. It really bothers me a lot, thinking how many dicks have fucked her. When we got arguments, I ...
A. 3 September 2008: Hi again,
I think I understand what you mean - you are bothered by her previous mentality more, the mentality that caused her to be so promiscuous in the first place.
While lots of women sleep with lots of men (and vice versa...) becaus... (read in full...)
He divorced me because, he says, I was controlling. Was I???
Q. My husband has recently divorced me very much against my will. He told me it was because I was controlling. I never asked him where he was or what he was doing , what time he would be home or anything. I felt I was only controlling in the fact that ...
A. 16 August 2008: Hmm, just reading the last two replies after mine. Is it because this lady's post is short and tight - as in not giving too much away? Whereas a genuine post is longer, less well structured etc. The structure of the post itself is controlled?
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He felt 'overwhelmed' by my strong personality and the only thing to do was to split up!
Q. Seeking support after boyfriend of 2 years ended it rather callously. I was working in a foreign country for 6 weeks to regain my confidence after a horrid time in my previous job. 3 weeks in I called him to express how I was feeling frustrated with ...
A. 16 August 2008: Thanks so much - i found your reply really helpful! I wanted to rate it 5 but the stars disapppeared when i clicked on the first one! I should have clicked on the fifth! When you see my rating - it's a 5 not a 1! You're spot on in your assessme... (read in full...)
How can I be happy when my boyfriend messes with my mind?!
Q. My boyfriend of 4 years has adhd. I am already in a hard situation as i have grown up with violence my whole life. My boyfriend will go off at the most pathetic thing if i dont do what he wants he hurts me he wants me to constantly have what he ...
A. 16 August 2008: Ok, people with diagnoses are entitled to be loved but only if their diagnosis does not get in the way. Sounds like his adhd is out of control and I advise you to get out and get support for yourself. This is not a healthy relationship - you deserve ... (read in full...)
Is this really love or do I just pity her?
Q. I love with my gf of two years now but I can't forget her past. She told me that she has 20+ partners before me. Worst I know some details of her past. It really bothers me a lot, thinking how many dicks have fucked her. When we got arguments, I ...
A. 16 August 2008: "How many dicks have fucked her" ??! My God! You speak of her like she is a worn out bus seat "how many asses have sat on it"!! She is a human being who has lived and loved before you. She is not slutty, indeed she is probably very experienced. ... (read in full...)
He divorced me because, he says, I was controlling. Was I???
Q. My husband has recently divorced me very much against my will. He told me it was because I was controlling. I never asked him where he was or what he was doing , what time he would be home or anything. I felt I was only controlling in the fact that ...
A. 16 August 2008: Nope you weren't controlling at all methinks. Maybe the holiday could have been joint decision but as others have said this can't be the sole reason. I think what he may have wanted to say was that you won't be controlled! Did he ever behave ... (read in full...)
What do women find attractive in a man???
Q. What do women find atractive in a man? I want your opinion, thanks to those of you who answer, its well appreciated....
A. 16 August 2008: Intelligence, sexual and body confidence (regardless of shape/size) passion and inner fire - ambition, dreams, goals - empathy, kindness, patience, romantic, self respect, independent of mummy (!) financially sensible, spiritual awareness. If t... (read in full...)
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