Will we get stared at or ridiculed? We are a biracial couple
Q. Hello. My name is Jeff, and I have a question that may come off as odd. I've met this beautiful white woman, and she told me she would like to go out on a date with me. As I am black, I have always wondered how it would be like to date a white wom...
A. 15 October 2013: You know what you do? Hold your head up high and hold your girls hand. It really bothers me we are in 2013 and there is still racism. Just because someone doesn't date outside of their race doesn't mean others should be judged for it. People always ... (read in full...)
Am I a stalker for sharing my crush's pictures on facebook?
Q. I used to have a crush whose pics I shared on Facebook and that person got angry with me for that very reason. Am I a stalker for that? ...
A. 12 October 2013: Um.. I would've been mad too, or weirded out in the least. Do you know her? Did u take the pic yourself? Were you in the pic? The only people I personally would want sharing my pix are my family, and friends I'm in the picture with. You're not her ... (read in full...)
After two years, he doesn't want kids. This is a different kind of rejection--I am devastated.
Q. I've been in a serious relationship for two years now. The topic of kids has been a back and forth issue for us--it's a stereotype, but here we go- I want children, and always have--he doesn't. He recently made that abundantly clear. After two...
A. 11 October 2013: Sometimes the people we thought we were meant to be with, really aren't . I am so sorry you are having such a tough time with this. If a man tells you he doesn't want kids, believe him. Men don't have the same mindset of a woman. There are no hidden ... (read in full...)
I'm an unhappily married man with two small children and I'm wondering if anyone has any experience staying with someone they don't love for their kids sake?
Q. hi everyone. im an unhappily married man with two small children.im wondering if anyone has any experience staying with someone they don't love for their kids sake? my wife has a short temper and can stay angry for weeks about things without e...
A. 11 October 2013: My god.. I can't believe anyone would say stick with this for better or worse.. I would assume the children would be more messed up if he stays.. they don't deserve to hear this garbage that comes from her mouth to their father. Pouring coffee over ... (read in full...)
Can you ever move on from a abusive relationship?
Q. Can I ever move on from being in a abusive relationship? Will I ever really, 100% trust another man again? I haven't started to date yet, since getting out of the relationship, but the thought scares me, as my ex seemed perfect and charming at ...
A. 10 October 2013: Yes you should put yourself out there! Don't let this BOY stay in your head! I once had a guy tell me "who the f*** would want you after having a kid"! Well, since then quite a few. Do NOT listen to his abusive words. Do NOT let him ruin your self ... (read in full...)
We broke up because of facebook! Who's right?
Q. So a few days ago my girlfriend randomly starts acting cold and won't tell me what's wrong initially. She then spills the beans and tells me that she saw me on Facebook liking photos and statuses of girls that she knows I used to talk to. We ...
A. 10 October 2013: I'm on your gfs side in this. Women are jealous creatures as it is. I wouldn't want my bf on any womans page either. Facebook creates more fights than it is worth. All hell would be raised especially if my bf was on an exs page, or someone he used ... (read in full...)
Dazed and confused ...girlfriend versus ex wife and children.
Q. I am not sure what to do... My girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. I have an ex-wife and 2 children with her, we communicate on a semi-regular basis (my ex wife) about the kids, their grades, behavior or events. Sometime we have small ta...
A. 10 October 2013: I am a mother, and also a girlfriend. First of all, you should have good communication with the mother of your kids. And yes, kids should be a #1 priority. But with that, you did have plans for a wedding. People pay for the # of people attending. ... (read in full...)
I'm an unhappily married man with two small children and I'm wondering if anyone has any experience staying with someone they don't love for their kids sake?
Q. hi everyone. im an unhappily married man with two small children.im wondering if anyone has any experience staying with someone they don't love for their kids sake? my wife has a short temper and can stay angry for weeks about things without e...
A. 10 October 2013: I was kind of in a similar situation. Honestly, if you don't want to be with her, and she makes you miserable, it is time to go. It has nothing to do with leaving the kids behind, or having a broken home. Kids are not dumb, and they know how you're ... (read in full...)
My GF broke up with me saying that once she finds someone that has potential for the long run, she no longer wants to be in a relationship anymore!!!
Q. One week ago my girlfriend broke up with me at the beginning of summer. We've been together for some time now and it felt like the breakup came out of nowhere since we had fun with each other earlier that day (interestingly enough, this is the exact ...
A. 30 May 2011: I am so sorry! Such a tricky heart wrenching situation.. Here it is... You seem to be this nice guy who fell inlove with a girl...and i emphasize girl!... Find someone who isn't afraid to commit and give YOU their all..and not a total mind game. ... (read in full...)
Do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls?
Q. I want you opinions men and women! I want to know do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls? i used to be rake thin and prided my self on that but now im older i have got bigger and im worried men wont fancy me as me! Given a choice what sort ...
A. 30 May 2011: Let me tell u from experience, I am not fat. But yes I got some curves! And I know how to rock them! I look better in a short skirt anyday compared to a butterknife! Never ever be worried about having hips or curves. Many men find it attractive. ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'??
Q. What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'? I can't think of what this means at all and how they do that..........
A. 30 May 2011: Hmm...could be they truly need to work on themselves (as I myself can actually relate to that)... But.. I have also used that as an infamous (but not in so many words) break up line. Do you see issues in this person? Is this something you have ... (read in full...)
Getting the place I deserve?
Q. my boyfriend and i have very busy lives so we dont have time to see eachother a lot he used to be in an open relationship and he also dosent seem to put me in his priority list or at least not as high as i should be; how can i make him give me the ...
A. 29 May 2011: Priorities priorities! Oh I understand you a 100%!! Here's the bottom line... If you don't have his all..then he deserves none of yours. You are young enough to move on, and break ups are horrible. But in the long run, you have to do what is healthy ... (read in full...)
Guys do not respect our relationship and hit on my girlfriend!
Q. i have a really large frustration and would love some input and suggestions. i'm gay and have a great, happy relationship with my girlfriend. we've been together for two years now. she's beautiful. she's got a gorgeous face, sexy figure. she's ...
A. 29 May 2011: I can understand your point of view...but you must realize you or her cannot control what other people say or do. Case in point, Jealousy can and will ruin a relationship if you let it, as I have before. It seems as you should have no worries, as ... (read in full...)
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