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writes:my boyfriend and i have very busy lives so we dont have time to see eachother a lot he used to be in an open relationship and he also dosent seem to put me in his priority list or at least not as high as i should be; how can i make him give me the place i deserve? Reply to this Question
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reader, Soconfusedanymore +, writes (29 May 2011):
 Priorities priorities! Oh I understand you a 100%!! Here's the bottom line... If you don't have his all..then he deserves none of yours. You are young enough to move on, and break ups are horrible. But in the long run, you have to do what is healthy for you emotionally and mentally. Eventually this will take it's toll on you, as it seems it already has. Maybe you two are just in two different places in life and want entirely different things. I know you may not want to hear this, but there are plenty of guys out there who can and will give you what you so desire in a relationship, and in life. Good luck girl! And I hope whatever decision you make, it is the right one for you. The only other piece of advice I could possibly give is try talking to him and tell him what you need out of this relationship. If he isn't willing to put forth and effort, and make you feel special.. Then it is truly time to move on xx
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 you can't make anyone do what they don't really want to do. talk to him about what you want, then just be the best girlfriend you can possibly be, if he still does not put more effort in - its time for you to leave. set yourself a time limit coz you cannot just drag on like this forever.
it sounds like you both want different things out of the relationship so sorry but maybe you are just not right for each other. does he understand that your relationship with him is not an open one?
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