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*mootnezz

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hi,

i prefer being identified as smootnezz for now. i will only disclose my real name to anyone who wants to be my friend. i live Ghana (africa).

I have reconnected with her, and though I do not exactly see her as a replacement for my girlfriend, I can't keep her off my mind!

Q.   i met this girl some time back before i met my current girlfriend. she liked me and made it obvious to me. i liked her too. however i did not want to rush into telling her how i feel about her too early. i met her through my younger brother so i ...

A.   25 April 2014: honestly, i think you have insulted me so many times in your response and that was unnecessary. calling me immature, how is that supposed to make me feel better? i have talked about only two girls in my post (the second one, i didnt even talk about ... (read in full...)

Women don't like me because I am short!

Q.   hi everybody, if u have read about my problems in the past, u wil realise that i hav a major self esteem issue. i dnt loke myself because of my height. it is sad to adaadmit but yea it is true and i need help. well i am about 5 tall and have ne...

A.   15 June 2012: citadel i wrote the question from my phone and made some typing errors. i shd hav read through before posting but i didn't and that is why the grammatical errors are there. sorry about that.... (read in full...)

How do I accept that I am just not "girlfriend material"?

Q.   After my last "almost-relationship" (see the question "He's with another woman, but still comes to me to talk about sex!"), a big heartache and working through it and analysing my life and relationships with guys I do realise that I am "just not ...

A.   23 June 2010: well, first of all i think that you have done everything right by accepting that you love your life and can live without a man. that is the begining of getting rid of this problem. i am telling you from my own experience. i had to deal with a l... (read in full...)

People say I am rude, but I never meant to be.

Q.   ok so i have this problem that i don't really think is a problem but everyone around me thinks it is. i am mostly a cold and sometimes unfriendly fellow; well, at least that's what a lot of people think. i don't do this from want of heart, but out ...

A.   23 June 2010: To quiet-echo: i like answer. thanks for being frank cuz i know a lot of female readers would rather say nice things they don't really mean, to make me feel better. but you say things they way they should be said and that's remarkable. one t... (read in full...)

Please help me to convince my family!

Q.   I have been in a relationship for the past two years with a guy I love so much. We intend to marry but my family is against his religion (we are not from the same religion.) So how do I convince my family to say yes to our marriage for I cannot g...

A.   10 March 2008: I can see that you really love your guy but be careful with the type of the love you are talking about. Does your guy love you the same way you love him? I think you have to try and convince your family and let them know that marriage has nothing ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be in a relationship so I use porn, but feel dirty about it

Q.   i don't want to go into another relationship for now. to do this, sometimes i watch porns and masterbate after that to calm down my lubido. but i feel so dirty after this most of the time. am i doing the right thing? please help me....

A.   27 February 2008:  thanks to everyone for responding. i appreciate it. God bless you all.... (read in full...)

I feel so betrayed and so belittled because I thought we were good friends.

Q.   I am hurt so badly and i want some advice. i sort of had acrush with this girl i like so much at my place of work. we like each other so much (or so i think). she has been nice to me in so many ways and vice-versa. i began to have feelings for her ...

A.   25 February 2008:  thanks rcn for answering me. you know, you could be right about my friend also being interested in her. he got to be friends with her first before me. somehow the girl became more enamoured with me after getting to know me and they were not that ... (read in full...)

I want to propose to her but...

Q.   hey, I need some advice from you guys. I think I am in love with this new girl at my work place. Initially when she came, I did not like her because I felt she was a braggish fellow but she proved me wrong, when surprisingly she engaged me in a ...

A.   22 February 2008: thanks to you guys for caring to advice me. i really appreciate it. especially to mandy7 and jabey. i like reponses. i very up-lifted. you guys can write to me through [e-mail blocked] i will really want to have you as friends. thans a lot one more ... (read in full...)

The trauma of losing her is really affecting my life, my work.. How can I know whether she is telling me the truth?

Q.   I met a girl i had known sometime back after a long time of missing link. some how we got to know each other better and remained friends for about a month. Everything that went on between us clearly told me we were in love so i decided to propose ...

A.   20 February 2008: Thanks so much khan for your advice. I really appraciate it. i feel something has finally been lifted out of my life. thanks again for taking some time to answer my question. If I had your e-mail address, I really would want to be friends with you. ... (read in full...)

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