Should I try and save what was a great relationship and could now be even stronger?
Q. Ahh where to start.......I have been dating a girl now for almost 4 years we recently broke up, probably about 2 months ago. We had a great relationship and it all came to a fall over a house I wanted to buy. My gf and I had been looking at houses ...
A. 8 December 2009: This is a tough one but it sounds to me like she's playing games. Yeah, she's hurt you slept with someone else because in her head, you should have been moping around after her.
You thought the relationship was over, because that's what she want... (read in full...)
I know I don't love him but should I sacrifice my happiness?
Q. Hey everyone, I hope that someone out there might have some helpful advice... I have been married for about 4 yrs and have a 5 yr old son from a previous relationship that went sour...My husband has been my sons father since he was 8 months old they ...
A. 8 December 2009: I agree with CaringGuy, you can show your family that you are trying through counselling. Perhaps even a trial seperation would be good, if you give your all for the sake of your son, you can remain friends with this man and keep him in your sons ... (read in full...)
Her past is affecting the way I see her now but I don't want to let her go...please help!
Q. Hi all, this my story: I am 23 and last year I got to know to a girl (24) from my college whom I liked, but there was nothing between us, she just belonged to the same circle of friends as I, so we just hanged out together and stuff, sometimes...
A. 8 December 2009: Your previous relationship was a fling. This one now should be a fresh start and at least she is being honest with you. You could always ask her to come and both be tested for STIs, its sensible anyway, and you could use it to draw a line under ... (read in full...)
It has taken me two weeks to pluck up the courage to post on here, please help me
Q. hello all i am so much in need of advice iv made a right mess of everythin u know when theres so much to explain but dont know where to start. i have been in a relatinship for 13 yrs he was not very nice to me and refused to commit, took all my ...
A. 8 December 2009: You need to get out and away from this man. If you don't have the strength right now, focus on getting it. You have had the courage to do this, don't stop now.
Your ex is controlling you and it will not have a good effect on your daughter to s... (read in full...)
Its like we’re in a long distance relationship but we live in the same house!
Q. I’m engaged to a man and we live together. We are planning to get married but I always delay things because I am not 100% sure. I think I love him but we live together and I am noticing habits that I am not sure I can live with. He is already ...
A. 8 December 2009: There are plenty of people who can live this way and plenty of people who don't. It's up to you to decide which one you are!
My fiance's father works away a lot and has for many years, his wife only sees him on weekends and sometimes not for week... (read in full...)
Boredom? Midlife crisis or just plain immature?
Q. Hello, I have been in this relationship for almost 6 year. We live together and get along perfectly fine. Until last week when he announced he wants to break up because he feels "tied down". He says he stills loves me but he misses the "...
A. 8 December 2009: Waiting to break up is putting you in a horrible situation. The end of a relationship is like a death (of the life you would have had together) you need to be able to grieve for it and move on. He is not allowing you to do this. By waiting he ... (read in full...)
Should I bring it up again and try to bring closure?
Q. I hope my question format is easy to understand. History: My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost two years. We have had our ups and downs, but nothing that was extreme in any manner. I love her very much, and she says she ...
A. 8 December 2009: Be honest, do you trust her? If so, and you want to make this work, you need to bring this up again. Relationships are based on deals in a way, you want her to agree not to see him, but she doesn't want to be told who she can and can't see. It ... (read in full...)
My bf got drunk and threatened me with a knife and I wound up sleeping with his best friend!
Q. Me, my boyfriend (who we'll call Andrew), his best friend (who we'll call Nick), and another friend of ours went out to a bar the other night together and all of us were kind of drinking a lot. Andrew got absolutely smashed all of the sudden and ...
A. 8 December 2009: You have got yourself into an unfortunate situation and made some mistakes, but the way you are feeling about it now shows that you want to make a change. Please leave Andrew, you do not have to tell him about Nick, the moment he threatened you he ... (read in full...)
I am scared that I might be pregnant! Help!
Q. Hello. I'm 16 about 4 days ago I had sex with my boyfriend. He used a condom but I'm so worried I might be pregnant I don't think the condom "broke" or anything, I would've felt it or heard it,right? I didn't notice a tear or anything in the ...
A. 8 December 2009: Try not to worry, I'm sure if the condom had split, your boyfriend would have told you, if only so you could do something like take the morning after pill. He doesn't want to be a dad yet, either right? If this scares you this much, you may not be ... (read in full...)
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