How can a man cut feelings out of his friendships?
Q. I have lost guy friends due to them having feelings for me and so when one of my married guy friends started to get distant, I asked him if it was because he was getting feelings. He said, "I dont really have feelings. I've cut feelings out of t...
A. 22 January 2016: The man is married. He loves his wife and does not want his feelings to progress for you, which is why he started keeping his distance. You should respect him for that and not try to pursue anything with him. He belongs to someone else, end of ... (read in full...)
At what point do I worry about what my husband is doing on facebook?
Q. Hello this is my first time posting in this website, I enjoy reading all the responses and questions which come up in the site. I guess now it's my turn. :) I will try to keep a long story short. I am 29 years old and my husband is 37. We have b...
A. 18 January 2016: You should be worried right about now. Your husband should not be blocking you on facebook and adding a tonne of women on his page, that's disrespectful to you. The comments he is making on other womens' pictures is completely inappropriate. You ... (read in full...)
Are my boyfriend's loose boundaries with his gay male friend crossing the line?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years and we live together. He is from another state and the first time I went home with him about a year and a half ago, I ran into some unexpected and hurtful interactions. ...
A. 15 January 2016: Nothing sounds normal with your boyfriend's interaction with his so-called friends. From what I have read, it sounds like your boyfriend is most likely a closet gay. He may like the idea of having you around to make him look straight but I think ... (read in full...)
His ex was 9", I'm only 6"..should I worry?
Q. I've been speaking to this guy I fancy on and off since last year and I've really got it bad for him, his now split up with his ex and now has kept our chats to the minimum we have quite a bit in common aswell. I really like him but now I've been ...
A. 15 January 2016: There is no need to feel insecure. You have the size you have so just own it. If this new guy your talking to doesn't want to be with you because of it, then he obviously isn't meant for you. He should like you for who you are, not your penis size.... (read in full...)
But why the sudden blanking...what does it mean?
Q. I split up with my ex a year and a half ago. It was pretty messy he ended up going to prison for being an idiot, all alcohol related. He has a problem with alcohol. It was over because I couldn't deal with the stress of it anymore. We didn...
A. 10 January 2016: I know you love this man but he is no good for you. Most likely he diconnected the call and didn't call you back because his new girlfriend was around. Why do you hold on to someone who has problems with alcohol to the point where he ends up in ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to carry on with this married man? Or walk away?
Q. I met a guy last year and we clicked instantly.as we got to talking he told me he asked if I was single and I said yes. He told me he was married but wars us to have a relationship.he told me his wife is in another country and doesn't live with ...
A. 8 January 2016: It won't be easy, you have to be strong. Let him go and start focusing on yourself. Start to reflect on what you really want out of life and a partner, don't settle for less. Meeting new people, hanging out with friends, getting closer with ... (read in full...)
Do I let a work collegeague know that her fiance is cheating on her?
Q. I've come across something quite disturbing and need some advice please. Last weekend I was on a hen party spa weekend with my friends. We went to this beautiful hotel which also had a spa and was a 2 hour drive from our town. Whilst we were ...
A. 8 January 2016: Don't get involved. If you tell the wife she may end up holding you liable for her relationship depletion/ending in the aftermath of her finding out from you. She may also feel ashamed knowing you know and having to see you at work everyday. It's ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to carry on with this married man? Or walk away?
Q. I met a guy last year and we clicked instantly.as we got to talking he told me he asked if I was single and I said yes. He told me he was married but wars us to have a relationship.he told me his wife is in another country and doesn't live with ...
A. 7 January 2016: The relationship you both have right now is an illusion. Even though his wife lives in another country, he is still married and you are still his mistress. If his wife were to come back and live with him he would pretend you don't exist. Right now ... (read in full...)
I think I'm gay but I don't know how to approach other girls
Q. Hi Cupids. Just some background, I'm at university and I'm 20, female. I've always had a suspicion that I'm interested in girls and have had very brief encounters in the past but I have never explored due to my own self consciousness. I've had...
A. 7 January 2016: Go to gay clubs and join online dating sites. If you see a girl who attracts you, make eye contact and smile. If she smiles back go up and talk to her. You have to just take a chance and don't let the fear of rejection stop you.... (read in full...)
Why? there is no intimacy. Partner has completely lost interest in sex
Q. since the birth of our daughter almost 4 years ago, my partner (early 40's) has completely lost interest in sex and any intimate connection is now non existent, we never hug, kiss or even snuggle, she admits that she has no interest in sex since ...
A. 7 January 2016: There is nothing wrong with feeling frustrated in a situation like this. Sex is a very important and pleasurable part of being in a relationship. I think seeking help with her by seeing a marriage counsellor together may help your wife overcome her ... (read in full...)
Help? Who do I chose? My ex or my child's father?
Q. I met up with an ex boyfriend last year July having not seen him for over 15 years. It was magical and he made he feel so good. WE dated a few times and he even came to my works xmas party. That's the last time I saw him. We had a good ni...
A. 7 January 2016: Your old ex flame was your ex for a reason. He may have come and lit some of the old feelings you had for him back, but who's to say what happened before won't happen again. Your child's father is making an effort to be a part of you and your ... (read in full...)
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