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writes:I've been speaking to this guy I fancy on and off since last year and I've really got it bad for him, his now split up with his ex and now has kept our chats to the minimum we have quite a bit in common aswell. I really like him but now I've been talking to his ex on Grindr and I like him too but only intrested in the guy I'm talking about my concern is that is ex is like 9inches long penis wise and I'm only average. I know how and what to do to get to know him and get a relationship with him (we clicked instantly and he is the other half of me personality wise meaning we are similar) but I'm now worried that his gonna be one of them guys who has a preference for penis size I'm literally average 6inch
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2016): I would absolutely not worry about this. I'm a female and straight, so I may not have the gay guy perspective, lol but we are on the same side of the fence though at least. So maybe my opinion will help. Do NOT let this get you worried. Because as a female, let me assure you, it really is not about length. A lot of women I'm sure, will tell you, they would prefer the six inches. My boyfriend is on the more equipped side than my ex, and as much as I love him, sex can be painful. Because at 8-9 inches, it's kind of too long. I will never tell him that, because it would hurt his feelings. But I would be content with a little shorter than that. People don't need 9 inches or longer. Unless they are into some freaky freaky porn video sorts of things. Which I'm sure is rare. Lol sorry for being graphic? But that's what I think about it. If he likes you, then he likes you. You don't have to have a massive penis to have great sex or great sexual chemistry! Because that's the part that actually matters- the chemistry between you two.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 January 2016):
 .. Im sorry, but I don't get it. What would anyone need a 9 inch penis for? I mean, that's only restricting you. Are you a virgin? Because I don't think anyone who's actually had sex would think a larger penis is preferable. That's something only a virgin, who's basing his experience off porn, would think. In real life, no, a larger penis, especially OVER average, is NOT preferable.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2016):
 Have you saw this 9 inches? Are you sure the guy is not just bluffing and talking himself up? Even so a relationship has a lot more to do with emotional connection. Yes there should be physical connection as well but that should not have anything to do with the size of your manhood.
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reader, SmartiePants007  +, writes (15 January 2016):
There is no need to feel insecure. You have the size you have so just own it. If this new guy your talking to doesn't want to be with you because of it, then he obviously isn't meant for you. He should like you for who you are, not your penis size.
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