Not sure of my sexuality
Q. Im getting really confused about my sexuality. Im female, and im definatly attracted to men, but i think i may be attracted to women aswell? I dont know, and im getting really confused and upset as i grow up... can anyone helpp me? x...
A. 25 April 2010: I think it's a normal question at this stage of your life, your coming into yourself and figuring out who you are. Experiment safely, and don't worry about rushing into throwing yourself into any specific catagory. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Can anyone please interpret this girls behavior?
Q. I have a extremely complicated and messy situation here it might not make perfect sense but I will try to explain the best I can last march i went to visit a friend of my ex's in Seattle because she said if i ever wanted to visit america i was we...
A. 25 April 2010: Sounds to me like this girl is rather immauture and has lots of drama and baggage. I would keep it as a memory and move on, I'm sure you can connect with a much less complicated local girl. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits, but I want more!
Q. Hi all, I am in a physical relationship with someone without any word of love ever being said. We are just good friends (with benefits!!! - tho I hate to say this). I am not happy because I am only with him because I love him but he probably does...
A. 25 April 2010: I would tell this guy how you feel so you're not haunting yourself with the "what if's" the worst that can happen is for him to not have feelings for you, if that's so, do you really want to be with him anyway? Good luck!... (read in full...)
How can someone get over someone?
Q. How can someone get over someone when it hurts really bad? I'm in deep pain.. I hurt and I feel my life is on hold. I just miss him all the time and he doesn't want to even talk to me. He doesn't respond to my calls or texts.. He took advantage of ...
A. 4 February 2010: Everyone has written such great advice, I don't have much to add other than I know how bad it hurts when your heart is broken, and I'm sorry you feel this way, I wish it on nobody! You have to get rid of everything having to do with him and let time ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to be friends with my ex thought I don't know why... why do I care so much?
Q. So this is the deal. I HAD been with my girlfriend for 7 months. Sounds not a long time i know, but still it was my first love. When i met her she was great...full of life, love etc etc though then we hit a glitch..3 months in she broke it off ...
A. 4 February 2010: Sounds like your a good guy who got hurt, and I know how much a breakup can suck. So NO you aren't a whimp for wanting to know that all the while you were trying to make it work that she had some kind of fond feelings about you (which I hope for her ... (read in full...)
Why is everything I'm doing to make myself happier always so stupid?
Q. What is this indicating for my future? My boyfriend of over three years and I have been discussing marriage and babies for about a year now. And every time I tell him I want to work as well to bring in a second income and have only two or three ...
A. 3 February 2010: You aren't stupid and someonwho who says they love you should never call you that either. It sounds to me like your husband has some major insecurity issues. At the sign of you finding happiness that has nothing to do with him, he belittles and cu... (read in full...)
Weighty issue...
Q. heyx at 5ft 2 and 11 stone, i really want to lose weight (need to) but at the same time i love to binge and dont think i can give it up completely. So i was thinking about eating 600 calories a day for 5 days in the week, 3000 calories for one day ...
A. 3 February 2010: That is a terribly unhealthy plan, you will throw your metabolisim all out of whack. You seem to be focusing too much on calories and not and WHAT your eating. If you eat a balanced diet full of fruit and veggies and a healthy exercise routine (ie ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to be friends with my ex thought I don't know why... why do I care so much?
Q. So this is the deal. I HAD been with my girlfriend for 7 months. Sounds not a long time i know, but still it was my first love. When i met her she was great...full of life, love etc etc though then we hit a glitch..3 months in she broke it off ...
A. 3 February 2010: Wow! You seem to have a lot of thoughts and feelings running wild right now.
First of all, you shouldn't have read her journal, that was meant to be a private place she could vent/express her thoughts and feelings. If you felt that uncontro... (read in full...)
Tips On How To Hook Up Smoothly
Q. So there's a really popular,sexy,beautiful girl at my school who's shown an interest in me. She's been going to all of my basketball games, both at the home court and away. We've gone on study dates together and I've gone to her house to study, ...
A. 3 February 2010: Stop avoiding the girl! If you want to "make a move" on her and not get all nervous, let it happen organically. Make it a non-threatening, casual envirnment and tell her how you feel, if you need to write her a sweet note- Let her know you think ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says the masseuse mastubated him! What do I do now?
Q. I live with my boyfriend and his parents. we've been together for two and a half years now. Yesterday he went for a massage and I jokingly said 'make sure they don't give any ''special'' treatment!' meaning sexual favours as I've heard some massage ...
A. 3 February 2010: My advice, get out of there running! He knew it was wrong the first time and he went back for a second round. And yes, it is cheating. ... (read in full...)
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