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My girlfriend cheats! How should I react?

Q.   I don't know how to take this news, but first i'm going to give a little background story. A girl proper fell for my friend about 3 years ago, and he really liked her too but they never got together. Then i started to feel asthough i was real...

A.   22 August 2008: I know your hurt but you guys were technically on a break so was that really cheating? Even though your friend did like your gf before you guys started going out and vice versa, hes not really your friend if he would be trying to get her to dump you ... (read in full...)

I didn't have sex w/ her b/c I'm against one night stands. She wants to get closer and I like her, but don't like how she is so "loose" w/ guys!

Q.   Hi, I wanted to ask for advice. I went to a works weekend and shared a flat with a friend and two girls. After lots of drink one of the girls started getting very close with me. Then she started kissing my mate (i didnt know this until after the ...

A.   16 February 2007: Yes, this girl is very "loose" and obviously feels the need for a tremendous amount of attention from guys, whoever they may be. My advice, dont put all your egg shells in one basket~in other words, dont get too hooked on this girl. I tell you this ... (read in full...)

After living w/ each other for a year, the spark is gone! I've tried to get it back, but he doesn't really seem interested. What can I do?

Q.   My bf and I have been together over a year.We also live together and have been for a year.He and I have known each other for over ten years.And in the beginning it was great.But,over the last several months things seem to be dying.Sex life has died ...

A.   16 February 2007: It seems like your doing all the work! What has he done to try and get the spark back? Does he even recognize its dying? You need to realize that it takes 2 to make a relationship work so no matter what new sex moves, new dinner meals, new pet names ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. Am I just being sensitive?

Q.   My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. She obviously recognises me when she sees me of course. Yet she says that she can remember what my brothers look like! Does this mean anything? or am I just bei...

A.   16 February 2007: i say that all the time to my boyfriend just because i know it will get under his skin. She can remember, she just wants to hint at you that she needs to see you more so she doesnt have to "forget" your face. You get it? If you get sensitive about ... (read in full...)

Am I being a fool thinking things could work out for us? Where should I go from here?

Q.   I received the email below from my boyfriend, who I did not realize was seeing someone else.. we live in separate cities and saw each other at Christmas and we talked about our relationship and he stated he wanted us to do things right... that he ...

A.   16 February 2007: I know exactly how ur feeling and although your emotions are whats on stake here, you have to think rationally. Okay, you love this man and you believe he loves you. If he loves you that much, he wouldnt be LIVING with someone else.He obviously ... (read in full...)

It's been 3 months now and nothing. Am I wasting my time with this guy?

Q.   I'm really confused..i met this lad *ryan in a club on my birthday weekend..i knew who he was but didnt know him to talk 2..we started talking on msn and it kind of kiked of from there. he met me and my m8z a week after my birthday and ended up ...

A.   11 December 2006: I know exactly how you feel. Same thing is happening to me except i've been "seeing" this guy for a year now! If you want my advice, i say get out now. He hasn't stepped up to the plate now, he prolly isnt going to and is going to let time go by ... (read in full...)

I'm in a new relationship - should I get back on the pill asap?

Q.   i havent been on the pill before an am just starting a new relationship, should i go on the pill straight away? or wait a while, jst incase we split... how long should i wait?...

A.   4 December 2006: I would go on it Asap. Just because u never know wut can happen and its better to be safe than sorry! The pill takes a month to start out when u first begin it, so u have a month to think abou it. Even if it doesnt work out, theres no harm in ... (read in full...)

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