He wants to touch me all the time and I need my space...what do I do?
Q. My boyfriend is a touchy-feely person, I am not. It's been relatively ok, because we haven't been in a relationship too long, but now that we've passed the 10 month mark, it's starting to get somewhat problematic. Touch is a big thing for him. He ...
A. 25 November 2005: I think perhaps the other anonymous answer to your question is a little harsh! You are not abnormal. Everyone is different. I know how you feel. I love my man to pieces but when it comes to being touched, sometimes I think aah get off, leave me ... (read in full...)
Can I change the way my testicles look?
Q. I am a man of 24 years of age but i am scared to get naked,never mind have sex with women. The problem is im embarrased by the size of my testicles,they are so small and tight u can barely see them.i think girls will laugh when they see them. I...
A. 25 November 2005: If you had any idea of how paranoid most women are about some aspect of their body you wouldn't be worried! Most likely the woman you were with would be thinking something similar about her own body. Most of us mere mortals who are not supermodels ... (read in full...)
How do I arouse my girlfiend?
Q. HOW to Arouse My girlfriend in a nice way?...
A. 24 November 2005: Women love romance, nothing is more arousing than feeling loved. Cosy nights in are always good. You could cook her a meal, turn out the lights and cuddle up on the sofa to watch a film. Be tactile. Maybe rest a hand on her leg. Lots of hugs, kiss ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him how I feel or should we just remain friends?
Q. Hello there, I am a new user, so this feels a little weird! But here goes... I'm a 33-year old female and entered into a new relationship in May after a 2-year "gap of singlehood". Things were wonderful to begin with and I genuinely thought I'd...
A. 24 November 2005: First things first...you shouldn't keep kicking yourself for the past, its so easy to get carried away with the romance, most of us women are guilty of that!
If this guy is still meeting up with you weekly then he obviously does want to spend ti... (read in full...)
I feel as if the world isn't real...
Q. I am 24 yrs of age and feel that world revolves around me. I keep thinking of what other people would say or do in reaction to what I do. I tend to easily believe someone, as my shutter of brain is down when I talk with people. I can't separate ...
A. 24 November 2005: Feelings of unreality, disassociation and detatchment like this can be a symptom of psychotic illness; from what you describe it sounds to me like you may be suffering from some sort of psychosis(I am no expert but have spent enough time in mental ... (read in full...)
How do I best help my self-harming friend?
Q. I have a friend, that means the world to me. She has been there for me, when I needed help the most, but this time I can't ask her to help me, because it involves her. My friend suffers from major depression, and she was seeing psychologist for...
A. 8 November 2005: I have been in the same situation as your friend, only now can I see the worry that I caused others when I shut them out. I used to self harm during a period of major depression which eventually landed me in a psychiatric hospital for 2 and a half ... (read in full...)
I'm so desperate for affection, that I'm prepared to get it elsewhere, but I want things to work out with my boyfriend!
Q. My boyfriend of three years doesn't sleep with me, have sex with me, or give me any physical affection for months at a time. I've expressed my feelings with him, I've tried to make the first move, and I've even resorted to splitting up to "get it ...
A. 8 November 2005: Has this always been the case or is your boyfriends lack of affection a new thing? If it has always been the way perhaps he just has a very low sex drive, some people have a greater need for intamacy than others. If he used to be affectionate with ... (read in full...)
I can't figure out whether my co-worker is actually interested, or is using me in some game of her own!
Q. I have worked at my current job for 2 years, and have known and worked with this particular woman the entire time. We work in a factory, and she is on my shift. She also has a live-in boyfriend, and the two of them have a two year old daughter. ...
A. 26 October 2005: My honest gut feeling is that she's playing games. Some women need constant reasurance that they are sexualy attractive and wanted, and still able to (sorry for the tacky phrase) "pull any bloke they want". It becomes a game to test and prove to ... (read in full...)
I think I'd be ready for sex with my boyfriend, if only I didn't have to show him my naked body!
Q. I am so scared of showing my boobs or downstairs to my bf. I am 18 and I'm ready to get phyical with my bf who I have been seeing for about 6 months but I'm so scared of showing him my body. I feel fat and I think that my body isn't good enough. My ...
A. 22 October 2005: I suffered from anorexia for years, so believe me, I know all about wanting to hide my body! I refused to let my boyfriend see or even touch me where I felt ugly, even hugging was difficult at my worst as I didn't want him to feel the 'fat' body ... (read in full...)
What kind of a Christmas present can I get my boyfriend?
Q. Heya, I know this may be a silly question but I was wondering what sort of Christmas present do you get a guy? I mean, me and my boyfriend are both 14 yrs old, and we love each other very much (yes I know, its only young love but this is for real) ...
A. 21 October 2005: Men are impossible to buy for!You could go for something sentimental like a photo album with pics of the two of you together (maybe a bit too girly for some blokes though!) or getting him something engraved with a personal message from you. Just ... (read in full...)
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