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What symptoms of pregnancy are there besides weight gain and missing periods?

Q.   Hey there, just a quick question what are the symptoms of pregnancy? Not like missed period or gaining weight i mean other symptoms before you know....

A.   28 July 2007: General weakness especially in the morning hours, nausea and light headaces, swelling of the breasts (fullness) and tendency of dislikes of smells and some foods.... (read in full...)

I'm worried that I'll become bored with my marriage; can anyone give me hope about this?

Q.   Are there any married couples out there that don't find their relationships boring? And if so, how many years have you been together? I've been married once, and boredom set in rather quickly. I'm heading down the isle with #2 pretty soon, and I ...

A.   28 July 2007: Like the saying, Marriage is not a bed of roses. Sure but you need to know what you and your partner want, opennes is the best key to enjoy your marriage and lastly trust one another. Since you are about to get into the act, i hope you are fri... (read in full...)

I fooled around with a guy I met; it was just sex but now I keep thinking about him

Q.   i met a guy while on a camping trip and we fooled around together that night but it ws only fun, then we met up and slept together but we both said it meant nothing and i havnt been in touch since then and suddenly i keep thinking of him and its ...

A.   26 July 2007: Does he think about you, has he tried to get in touche? may be he was camping trying to get away from something which was later on resolved, if he is not trying to get in touche then forget him before you get disappointed.... (read in full...)

I think I have feelings for my best friend but I don't want to tell him incase he doesn't feel the same

Q.   My best friend (of 2 years) and I have been talking for a long while about his past relationships and I have decided that I dont think anyone would be good enough for him. Im not sure why, I would be happy for him if he got another partner as he ...

A.   26 July 2007: You could be right, a first step is always difficult, I suggest you ask the question in a joking way and see the reaction. If the answer is No, just forget and continue your friendship, good lovers come out of good friends. Take the step.... (read in full...)

Why has he stopped answering my calls and emails?

Q.   An old boyfriend called in January. He lives 4 hours away. He called and emailed daily for months. We saw each other in February, and he continued to call/write. In April, he stopped calling and rarely emailed. I would call periodically and cont...

A.   25 July 2007: You need to be straight with affairs especially if you have been divorced, can you please try and send him mail telling him that you gonna visit him and see what he says, probably he does not want the relation to take off yet not sure or there is ... (read in full...)

Some guy has just informed me, my girlfriend is his girlfriend.

Q.   Please i have a girlfriend whom i know for long time ..we were friends, then we went to the same college and now we are in relationship for about 8 months now But One day, some guy came to my office to tell me that the girl i love is his girl...

A.   25 July 2007: If you trully love this girl, do ask her politely not in the way of accusing her, l am sure she will tell you, dont just walk away,just because a guy walks in and say he is in love with her.... (read in full...)

Can you sleep with a boy that's under aged without getting into trouble?

Q.   I know that if a guy is over 16 and a girl isn't if they have sex the guy can get into huge trouble with the police if they get caught. What happens if it is vice versa (the girl is over 16 and the guy isn't?)...

A.   25 July 2007: The law strongly forbids this act.Please forget the boy and look for someone your age. By so doing you are avoiding falling into trouble. Wish you luck.... (read in full...)

He abused me, he lives next door and is now tormenting me with new girlfriends.

Q.   I have just come out of an 18 month relationship with a guy 10 yrs younger than me, he used and abused (verbally) me throughout but i kept going back (and still would). I cannot get him out of my system (maybe because he lives next door), but last...

A.   25 July 2007: My dear I am sorry for what you are going throu, however there is only one way to do this, is by accepting that the man you loved did not love you. It hurts if love is thrown back to your face but I want you to be your own and try doing something ... (read in full...)

It won't go in...

Q.   Me and my girlfriend are both virgins. When me and my Gf tried having sex, my penis just wouldn't go in. Can anyone help me out here?...

A.   25 July 2007: My dear, your penis wouldn't go in may be because you were not erect or because of too much excitement. Try doing it again when you are relaxed and well protected and you both will enjoy.... (read in full...)

Now that she knows marriage is imminent my girlfriend seems to be questioning everything in life

Q.   for the past eight months my girl friend has been begging to get married. now that she knows it is close she seams to be second guessing everything in life it seems. so, could some one just tell me that shes just scard and it is normal, or should i ...

A.   24 July 2007: Marriage is sweet when both of you love deeply however I must warn you, its not always good all the time, alot of patience is needed and offcourse good and timely communication is the best way to go. good luck ... (read in full...)

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