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writes:An old boyfriend called in January. He lives 4 hours away. He called and emailed daily for months. We saw each other in February, and he continued to call/write. In April, he stopped calling and rarely emailed. I would call periodically and continued to email. Three weeks have passed, he hasn't answered an email or a phone in that time. Last time we talked he acted like everything was fine. I was hesitant to get involved since I've been divorced for 7 years and have a daughter. I'm confused. What's the deal? I refuse to send another email or call. Any suggestions?
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reader, Shalita  +, writes (25 July 2007):
You need to be straight with affairs especially if you have been divorced, can you please try and send him mail telling him that you gonna visit him and see what he says, probably he does not want the relation to take off yet not sure or there is someone else, I know all this has gone on in your mind but you need to confront carefully the situation so as you dont stay in dark. Wish you the best.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 It's hard for any of us to understand why he has stopped calling and emailing, maybe he has met someone else and has not got the balls to tell you this or maybe he is scared of getting involved with you because of your daughter.
I think you just need to try and move on from this and not contact him anymore, he will contact you if he wants to, then it's totally upto you what you do if he does.
Take care.xx.
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