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Hi there! Well I know I might not have all the answers, maybe not any at all. But what I do know, is I have gone through alot of things in my life that the average person would be shocked at if I opened my mouth and started sharing all of it. This is just a way for me to help share the knowledge that I do have, and to try help people avoid some of the things I had to learn the hard way.

After a lot of baby steps back to reality, and back to normality - I met the man of my dreams, and am now happily married!

Please just remember, no matter what advice or rather, opinion, i might give - it is still your full right to follow your heart(with whatever you are feeling at that stage).

Keep smiling - even when it feels is if you are on a downward spiral to nowhere! You'll eventually get back on track...

Much love...

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B/f needs texts or calls me back!

Q.   My bf doesnt always reply to my messages or phone calls. This really frustrates and upsets me, and it also makes me worried. We have a long distance r/ship- this makes it even harder to deal with this. Last time he visited me, he was all over m...

A.   15 May 2009: Hi there! Well we all know long distance relationships very, very rarely work out! Men are funny creatures... I guess it all depends how long this has been going on for. If, not too long - then I would say, give him a little time to adjust to his ... (read in full...)

Skipped almost two periods now...am I pregnant?

Q.   Okey i really need help im 13 nearly 14 and i think im pregnant. the last couple of times me and my boyfirnd had sex we did not use protection as he pulled out before he came so i thought it would be okey but now im realy worried because i have ski...

A.   15 May 2009: hmmm, if you play with fire, you get burn't. It definately sounds like you are pregnant. Get a home test before you tell anyone. Then if you are, tell your mom. The same happened with someone i know, and she also thought her mom would kill her, but ... (read in full...)

I think he's cheating again..what now?

Q.   Hi everyone Well I will try and keep things short. I have been with my husband for 9 years married for 7. About 4 years ago he had an affair with a woman he worked with. It went on for about 2 years and we were apart. We got back together after al...

A.   14 May 2009: What a difficult situation - I know exactly how you feel as it has happened to me too! If you let him win(which was the mistake i made over and over again), he will never ever stop doing what he's doing to you. And hun, you dont deserve this kind of ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 but lied to b/f telling him I am 19

Q.   hi i am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 :] we've been together for 6monthsi met his family and we're very close to each other now. but i have a problem. i lied to him he know that I'm 19 too.. his family trusted me so well but im afraid to tell him the ...

A.   14 May 2009: The foundation of any relationship should be honesty. If there is no honesty from the beginning, you are only looking for problems. I think you should tell him your age, explain to him why you thought you had to lie. He will probably laugh it off, ... (read in full...)

Gambling & trannies and its left me broken

Q.   i'm writin this as i would like to know if this has ever happened to anyone else? i was in a relationship for 4 n half yrs we have 2 kids.i knew he gambled a little but i was in for a shock last yr i found out he had remorgaged his house and blew...

A.   14 May 2009: Hun, im so sorry to hear you're going through all of this... The difficult thing is that you 2 have kids together which only complicates a matter! You have to ask yourself the question: Is it worth it? You dont want your kids to pick up on his bad ... (read in full...)

Why did he look but then freak when I made eye contact?

Q.   Today as we were walking out of class this guy (who I noticed stares at me a lot) kept looking back at me. He stared at me for a while and when I made eye contact with him he turned around and started to walk really fast. Then when school was over I ...

A.   14 May 2009: Girl, i dont think you have anything to worry about! He's probably into you, thats all... I think next time he looks at you, and you catch him - just flash him a flirty smile. He might just be plucking up the courage to ask you out! If I were you,... (read in full...)

Married, haven't cheated but close to it

Q.   i have been married for 14 years now, and have not truly been unfaithful. our sex life has now dried up for the last couple of years. i have met another girl a lot younger than me, also with a boy friend. the two of us share each others secrets and ...

A.   14 May 2009: Wow! One of the toughest situations a married couple comes across in marriage. I see your heart is in the right place by saying you do not want to hurt your wife! Well then the simple solution would be - dont! You and your wife need to sit down, and ... (read in full...)

What's going on with this relationship?

Q.   why is the guy I am interested in seem so distant? I cant get him to open up, we talk almost everyday on the phone just about everything under the sun except about what it is we are looking for. We have had very passionate sex only twice. he doesn't ...

A.   14 May 2009: Aw hun... this is so difficult for someone who is in this situation - guys are normally like this! It's so frustrating to us girls. Have you ever heard that saying: Cut loose the cord and let him fly away... if he returns, you know its mean't to be. ... (read in full...)

I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend... what do I do?

Q.   i've been really very serious with my current bf for the last one year.. before that i had a long crush of 3 yrs on my best friend and now we still just remain the best of friends and my bf is very open minded and doesn't have any problem with it. i ...

A.   14 May 2009: Girl, what are you doing having sex and getting yourself into such tight-spots at such a young age?? I know you're probably rolling your eyes at me right now... but you need to get your priorities straight! Isn't sex special anymore?? Sex should be ... (read in full...)

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