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Q.   I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...

A.   9 October 2010: Collect all the texts as evidence. And get her a new phone number that he doesn't have. This guy is self destructive. He's way over the hill and still hitting on a married woman 15 years younger, at work, and sending pervy texts while drun... (read in full...)

Ex-boyfriend buys you drinks all night, then makes out with another girl infront of you.

Q.   Why would an ex-bf buy you drinks all night then make out with some girl at the bar almost in front of you? My ex, who broke up with me 8 months ago recently asked me to go out for a drink with him to "catch up". I said "sure" but next week someti...

A.   8 October 2010: Hmmmm boy, whooo eee this a hard one. Hmmmmm ..... He's using you for his own ego trip ? Uh nope can't be that. He's an utter slimester, douche bag ? No can't be that; he was once your boyfriend, must be a prince then. Umm... (read in full...)

We argue alot after sex! Is it because I'm not satisfied?

Q.   I have a problem in my relationship which is really starting to get to me. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. He is loving, kind and generous. The problem we have is in the bedroom (or so I think). When we meet up, we ar...

A.   8 October 2010: Yes You really don't respect him too bad for both of you... (read in full...)

Why do so many marriages fail?

Q.   Why do marriages fail? So many people get married, and feel that they are marrying their true love, while imagining that they will be together forever. They have relationships where the committment is "iffy" and there are lies and betrayals before m...

A.   8 October 2010: Lack of preparation. Beliefs in Fantasy about relationships and marriage. Poor career and money planning. (Granma advised: "When money trouble walks in, LUV walks out" ) Poor impulse control with the mouth. (you can never really take back w... (read in full...)

How do I get my daughter to see what a jerk her boyfriend really is?

Q.   I need advice. My daughter has bee dating her boyfriend for 4 months now. She thinks they're serious. He turned 21 a few weeks ago and chose to spend his birthday with another girl...."just a friend"...because she promised (after he and my daughter ...

A.   8 October 2010: Time and exposure to a higher quality of men will solve it. Don't preach just ask questions carefully and rarely. If she is "in love" just make sure there is birth control happening. Do want this guy picking up your grandchild at your house li... (read in full...)

She says she'll have a better time at the club if I'm not around!

Q.   What would yo tink if the person you are dating for the last 4 months is adamant that she will have a better time at a club/party if you are not around, and that i should find it "sexy" if she come back and tells me about how much fun she had....

A.   8 October 2010: What is there about "more fun without you" that you don't understand ? Which part of that is difficult for you ?... (read in full...)

Seriously???

Q.   I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...

A.   8 October 2010:  PS- If you are a real person and this is a real situation, let's see, from the little that you provided, you are about 40 with two kids, she is 45 or 46, your wife of 12 years, the asshole is about 60 +. Corporate guys about age 60 + don't get ... (read in full...)

Seriously???

Q.   I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...

A.   8 October 2010: Depew: There isn't enough information given to dertermine that. If there's one text of an overly romantic or sexual nature,as evidence he's fired. If there is more than one and it continues after being informed in writing it is not welcom... (read in full...)

Seriously???

Q.   I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...

A.   8 October 2010: Varies by state, you may be lucky enough to be in a state still with "jilted hearts laws" -- Alienation of Affection - Interference with marriage can cost big bucks in North Carolina --- http://marria... (read in full...)

Seriously???

Q.   I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...

A.   8 October 2010: I don't really believe this is a real person with this question but here goes. First get a really good big city lawyer, that specializes in white collar crime. Pay him the $2,000 retainer, based on home wife & kids, it's worth it. Tie up a goo... (read in full...)

Can my boyfriend force me to give up our child?

Q.   I'm 20 years old and I might be pregnant. I've only ever been with one guy (my bf of a year and a half) and I've always told him that if I got pregnant by accident, the only option for me would be to keep it. I've scheduled a doctor's appt to find ...

A.   6 October 2010: No, get a lawyer and a restraining order, and some help from your family. Then get a new boyfriend. Any man that would throw away his own child is on his way to jail for hurting you or someone else. He's trouble, lose him.... (read in full...)

A girl confused choosing between two guys

Q.   This might be a long post, but please bear with me. I have been with my boyfriend for the 5 years. A year after we started going out I moved in with him and his parents since I was living in a little basement, and my boyfriend thought that was not ...

A.   6 October 2010: Get a Grad school Loan, move out, get a cheap old car, and ask him to date you. If he's doing all this waiting around it sounds like he's kind of wussy and now getting irritated about it like it's not his fault or something. Tell him you can't he... (read in full...)

Can he still be put away for his past?

Q.   Okay so I am "seeing" a man who just turned 29 and I am about to be 19, I am legal now but I have a problem. My aunt and a few other relatives have a problem with me seeing him and theyre against it. I had sex with him when i was almost 16 and he ...

A.   6 October 2010: Varies by state. Pay the $100 and call a lawyer. Probably subject to either a 7 or 11 year statute of limitations. Once you're 18 you might be able to sign a statement that you don't hold him criminally liable for the underage sex. Were their ... (read in full...)

I like kinky sex but my boyfriend doesn't want to play.

Q.   This is not the first time Ive had this issue. This is just the first important relationship Ive had it in. Im kinky. Im the type of kinky that you see in porn. I love to be held down, spanked, forced to do whatever my partner desires. Being h...

A.   5 October 2010: Hmmm, sounds like he could be a lame lover. Might want to rethink that "until death do us part" commitment with paychecks, joint accounts, property and who gets the dog or cat if this doesn't work out. If he loves you and wants to be with y... (read in full...)

Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.

Q.   hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was...

A.   5 October 2010: First if you're O.K. with her getting laid by 24 different guys get her tested for STD's when when she gets back, that puss in the back of her throat is probably the clap. Second, If you're O.K. with her getting laid by 24 different guys, you need... (read in full...)

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