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I'm a virgin and he's not, what do I do seen as he is moving a bit too fast?

Q.   Hi, I have a question about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 almost 20 and he's 21, I'm a virgin and he's not. We have been dating for two months now, and I have told him that I'm still a virgin and that he's not allowed to touch certain ...

A.   26 July 2009: Thank you guys for everything you've told me. My bf and I are slowing down our relationship. I'll keep all of your opinions in mind for future references lol. Again, thanks guys.... (read in full...)

I gave my daughters boyfriend permission to propose to her.... But having second thoughts about it!

Q.   My daughter and her boyfriend met on some Harry Potter fan site a few years ago and have been together now for three years. They started dating when he was 17 and she was 20 and they met in real life only last year. Before their relationship even ...

A.   23 July 2009: well, i'm the oldest in my family, and i Don't know if a teens advice will help, but. I think that you're iffy because of the age difference and the fact that they met online first. But if your daughter is the older or second oldest and such,... (read in full...)

What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?

Q.   I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew ...

A.   23 July 2009: Ok, I know that nearly everyone that replied to your question has said don't have sex at your age, but I'm going to say it too. I'm 19 and still a virgin. I am with a boyfriend now and I know that I will not be mentally ready for sex until I'm ... (read in full...)

I need help before I destroy more lives!

Q.   why am i such a pessimist it truly is awful being like this,im actualy an horrible person but i am quite good at fooling people especially women,i know that my ex girlfriend was good to me in loads of ways but i even turned her against ...

A.   23 July 2009: Well the way that you think the problem is you, means that you're wanting to change. But it's possible that a part of the problem you're having is the girls you date too. I'm not pointing a finger or anything, just be careful not to degrade yourself ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and he's not, what do I do seen as he is moving a bit too fast?

Q.   Hi, I have a question about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 almost 20 and he's 21, I'm a virgin and he's not. We have been dating for two months now, and I have told him that I'm still a virgin and that he's not allowed to touch certain ...

A.   22 July 2009: Ok, I know I haven't said much about myself in the question and in the thanks I had for you guys. I'm LDS or mormon for those who don't know what LDS means. I've been raised to wait until marriage and never allow anyone to touch me in any way that ... (read in full...)

Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?

Q.   Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...

A.   22 July 2009: Dude, what's wrong with you? How can you possibly expect everything to be her fault? I'm all my time of dating jerks, you're the worst. I've been called so much of the things you've said to her, and I went out the door not much later only to see him ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting to move on and find happiness?

Q.   I have decided to end things with my partner, sheerly because he gambles five days a week, we have one child together and i have three from a previous relationship, and he pays no interest in them only complains about their behaviour, they are ...

A.   22 July 2009: Move on, gambling is a nasty habbit to deal with when raising a family. My uncle married a woman who loved him a lot and he had gambling problems too, but she left him looking to find someone better, even though she loved him. If your bf has issues ... (read in full...)

This is only my second serious relationship, and now she drops the bombshell that she has a boyfriend!

Q.   Hi there, I fell in love with a woman over a period of time. Nothing physical happened. I've known her for a while. Anyway, It was her birthday few weeks ago, and I had a special night planned for us. She calls me and says her "b/f" is coming ...

A.   22 July 2009: Well, did you ever ask her if she had a bf before you started getting serious with her? Did she know how you felt? Don't get me wrong, it's sounds pretty bad from your point of view, but in my opinion, I think you just kinda jumped the guns and... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and he's not, what do I do seen as he is moving a bit too fast?

Q.   Hi, I have a question about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 almost 20 and he's 21, I'm a virgin and he's not. We have been dating for two months now, and I have told him that I'm still a virgin and that he's not allowed to touch certain ...

A.   22 July 2009: Thank you so much guys. I really appriciate your opinions and answers. It does help me alot to know these things since i'm not very experienced with men in general and I guess that it really doesn't help if we turn each other on, but everytime he ... (read in full...)

Why the sudden U-turn in his feelings?

Q.   I have been seeing a man for 8 weeks and he just finished the relationship. He fell in love with me in two weeks and i said it was too fast. He said he had found the one, he spoke about moving in one day in the future when we were ready and that one ...

A.   22 July 2009: To be honest, I don't know if my reply will help you whatsoever. I'm a teenager almost adult, but the situation is very much like a teenage boy who got caught with his hand in the cookie jar. Either he did something that made him doubt himself ... (read in full...)

Why wont they accpet that I don't drink and stop pressuring me?

Q.   My bf, his whole family, and his friends all keep trying to force me to drink through pressuring me. I keep telling them I dont drink, but they wont accept it, they continue to harrass me non stop. They buy me alcoholic drinks and say "you have to ...

A.   22 July 2009: If they are pressuring you to drink and you've told them repeatedly that you don't drink and don't want to drink, even you're bf's supposedly "mature adults", then don't stick around them. If you're bf is trying to make you drink and not respecting ... (read in full...)

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