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I live in London,UK, with my fiance and our three children (aged 13yrs, 4yrs and 1yr).

Like most couples we have been through a lot together and came out on top in the end, we have now been together for 6 years, which is the longest either of us has been in a reltionship for.

And we plan to marry in the near future.

I think that what we have been through together as a couple and in our pasts has made us a strong, solid couple.

I am not an expert on giving adice but i do feel that thanks to my own experiences i can give out friendly, honest adivce that may be able to help others or encourage them.

I am an open minded person, therefore i do not shock easily and do not judge people, i listen which is all most people need at the end of the day.

Is he genuine or just looking for sex?

Q.   I was out with friends one night and my eyes met with this guy, one of those strange moments when u know there's something there. Anyway we danced and kissed. In all my life this kiss was amazing, so much so that i think about it at least every ...

A.   21 April 2008: Have you tried to have just a normal chat with him, if things start hotting uo try to change the subject to something non sexual and see what happens.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my cousin I want the sex to stop?

Q.   Well i'm going to start off at my cousin's house. One night me and him began doing sexual things to each other, i know it's gross but i was scared to tell him "no". When he comes around like at family get together's - i feel nervous when he even ...

A.   21 April 2008: Have you just simply told him how you feel, how uneasy it is making you, just come out and tell him it has to stop. If he doesn't listen then try to keep your distance from him until he gets the message. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)

Is my husband hiding an affair??

Q.   My husband is hiding something. We have been married for 16 months and I have had a horrible gut feeling for almost year. He is the kindest, loveliest man you can ever imagine meeting but some things just dont add up and his mood is tempramental. A...

A.   3 December 2007: I agree with you, this is very odd behavour, he is acting alittle strange and suspiscious. Have you tried just asking him out right if he is involed with anyone or anything else? It can't be easy for you, and you haven't been married for very lon... (read in full...)

She is all I want but she forgives her bf again and again. I am sick of waiting it out...what do I do??

Q.   I was dating this girl for about a month and fell in love with everything about her and i know she felt the same way. She has told me. At the same time she started seeing this other man that i know and he officially asked her to be his a week lat...

A.   3 December 2007: OK, well first of all if you love her as much as you say you do then just be the friend she needs, be there for her, it may be hard but at the end of the day if or when her relationship does crumble she will have you to turn to. It might hurt you... (read in full...)

Will he marry me?

Q.   I have been with a guy for 10 months and I know he is the one... but am scared to bring up the subject we have both been married once before and he used to say he would never get married... but recently he has been saying that our relationship ...

A.   3 December 2007: It does sound like you will marry in the future. I think all you need to do is give it a little more time. Now and then bring up the subject and disguss with him about how you would like your future with him to be and see if he feels the same w... (read in full...)

We are both worried the distance will split us apart.

Q.   I'm 16 and my bf is 20, we've been going out for nearly 4 months now and are in love, the only problem is that its long distance. He lives in england and i'm in scotland,we both trust one another completely, he comes up when he can but recently...

A.   25 November 2007: I think that your mum has every right to be concerned for you. Give it time, you both have to gain her trust. If it is meant to be between you and your boyfriend then it will all work out. Some long distance relationships do work out but also rem... (read in full...)

I just can't believe that my wonderful girlfriend was a stripper all those years ago. Sometimes it bothers me...

Q.   I love my girlfriend totally. We've been dating for 2 years and talk marriage often. She's 35 and I'm 37, so we're not kids. We are both divorced. She used to be a stripper when she was 19-22. She supported her slacker ex and paid her way through ...

A.   11 November 2005: Everyone has has a past,ok, so she was a stripper,i am sure you have known this for a while now.If she no longer does this job why are you letting it bother you,she has put it all behind her and if you love her as much as you say you do then i think ... (read in full...)

He lied to me about messages on his phone from a woman he met, and I just keep obsessing...

Q.   Please help. I'm so upset I've actually been vomiting all day. Just found out my fiance met a woman on an airplane. I know this because I found a strange text message on his cell phone. He told me it was from a male friend. He's a bad liar. I...

A.   1 November 2005: If you have no proof that anything than just talking happened between your fiance and this woman then i think it would be for the best to put it behind you and leave it in the past. Continue to look forward to getting married and having a happy and ... (read in full...)

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