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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was dating this girl for about a month and fell in love with everything about her and i know she felt the same way. She has told me. At the same time she started seeing this other man that i know and he officially asked her to be his a week later. Due to my lack of jumping on to things quickly she said yes to him most likely because i wanted to wait it out. For 2 years i let this girl make her own decisions gave her her own space and realized he would screw up and it would most likely end. However, Screw up after screw up she forgave and forgave the bigger they got the more she forgave. until now they are now living together and plan to get engage. I can't except that. I can't. I waited and conserved everything just to let her make her own decisions. I played the smart game and it got me no where. I can't deal with letting it happen. I have tried to move on tried seeing other girls going out more to pass the time and it all failed leading me back to her. She is all i have and all i want. What do i do?
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Hey buddy - you have got to accept the reality and look to your future. You are stuck right now. All I can suggest is that you go and do something extreme to wake your senses. A parachute or bungee jump or something.
Good luck
Richard
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reader, Saz +, writes (3 December 2007):
OK, well first of all if you love her as much as you say you do then just be the friend she needs, be there for her, it may be hard but at the end of the day if or when her relationship does crumble she will have you to turn to.It might hurt you seeing her with him but she has chosen this path and you have to respect that or you could even lose her friendship as well.
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