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writes:I have been with a guy for 10 months and I know he is the one... but am scared to bring up the subject we have both been married once before and he used to say he would never get married... but recently he has been saying that our relationship will lead to marriage... I hope this is so.... but what should I do just wait and hope or push the subject? Reply to this Question
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reader, michel  +, writes (3 December 2007):
I would say depends of your patience. For.ex i dont have much and if was put in your shoes I would push the issue. You have 2 options: To hint at him or to ask Him plainly. Its on personal estimation which One would choice. Good Luck
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reader, Saz  +, writes (3 December 2007):
It does sound like you will marry in the future.I think all you need to do is give it a little more time.Now and then bring up the subject and disguss with him about how you would like your future with him to be and see if he feels the same way and then maybe in a few more months why don't you do the proposing,you might be pleasently surprised. Good Luck, hope it all works out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): I was once married at an early age. Once divorced, I told people that I stood a better chance of getting pregnant than ever marfying again. A part of me was desperate to have that connection with a woman again. That only led to toxic relationships. Once I stopped looking and learned to love myself; others followed. I'm currently married and enjoying life once again with my best-friend!
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Him bringing up the subject that your relationship will lead to marriage is a hint it is something he is looking forward to. Discuss with your partner about what plans you both may have for the future. Dont nag him about proposing, just simply discuss with him that he is the one for you and you would love to give marriage another try. See what goes from there and accept any of his responses.
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