I'm torn between my wife and my girlfriend! What do I do?
Q. Wow am I glad I found this site. Here's my situation. Im a seperated 33 year old guy. My wife Sheri (36 years old) and I have been married 3 years. Sheri is a "good woman" with a big heart but I never found her attractive the way a man should be ...
A. 8 December 2005: After you are with Nadine for awhile, the excitement will wear off just like it did with your wife. Then you will be stuck with a boring women without the security that you had with your wife. Stop thinking with your penis.... (read in full...)
The signs are there that he could be seeing someone else...but he says it's nothing!
Q. ive been with my fiance 4 1/2 yrs for the last 3 months he has been working away during the week.the last few weeks he hasnt been ringing me when he says and he is always stressing at me for no reason. ive checked his phoneand found messages...
A. 8 December 2005: Leave for a day or so and see how upset he gets. Sounds like he's got a new interest. He needs to decide how serious he is about persuing her. Where there's smoke, there's fire.... (read in full...)
Why do bright attractive women fall in love with married men? Help me understand
Q. I am a 38 yr old attractive, intelligent woman. My problem is that I am in love with a married man. His marriage is loveless there is no physical contact and has not been for 3 years. He has 2 children 11yrs 4 yrs owns his own business and ...
A. 8 December 2005: He is lying. He is having sex with his wife and you. Men like variety and if he can get away with it, he will. He loves his wife and you are the variety. Ask him to leave her and go with you and see what he says. Amen... (read in full...)
I am not attracted to my wife physically..should I have sex with an old gf?
Q. I love my wife very much and would never want to hurt her. We get along very well and are very connected, except for one area: sex. I am no longer attracted to her physically. In the meantime, an old girlfriend of mine has contacted me and really ...
A. 8 December 2005: Don't waste your wife's time. She's probably a dynamite woman that alot of men would want. Let her go to be with someone who appreciates her and go be with your other girlfriend. You must not love your wife that much to consider having sex with ... (read in full...)
My man wants to "work on" his marriage, but does he still love me too?
Q. I'm not too sure what to make of my relationship with man who has recently decided to work on his marriage (he has been separated for 2.5 years). I have told him that it's best we break off this special relationship, but it seems he wants to ...
A. 8 December 2005: You are being a fool! This guy wants the comforts of the woman that he truly loves in his heart and the excitement of the woman on the side, which you are. Sorry to be so straight-forward but men will get away with anything that they can if you ... (read in full...)
My husband compares my body to porn stars...and it hurts. Should I take the kids and leave?
Q. Hi Guys, What should a woman do if her h tells her that he finds the women in porn so much more beautiful than his wife? Especially if the wife takes great care of herself but he is unhappy about changes associated with aging and having been pre...
A. 8 December 2005: Your husband is being inconsiderate to your feelings. Your body may not be like a perfect porn star because you have given birth to his children! Those porn stars probably work out 4 hours per day because they have nothing else going for them ... (read in full...)
Is the bartender really just my husband's "friend", or do they have something going on?
Q. My husband of 6 months suddenly became really good friends with a female bartender in our neighborhood bar near our summer cottage. When I went back home to work while he stayed there, they became better friends. He says that they are just friends ...
A. 18 November 2005: I think that Pops might have a history of jealous girlfriends that makes him hostile towards female jealousy. But at the same time, most men give their mates a reason to be jealous with their flirting and sneakiness. Why can't they just be thankful ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my wife how much I love it when she's dressed up, but I feel weird about it...
Q. Ilove my wife's femininity. I love when she is dressed up, her perfume, clothes, boots, nylons, sexy underwear, etc. I am unable to communicate this without fear to her and am afraid she thinks I am weird. I suffered abuse as a kid and fear this unc...
A. 16 November 2005: Your wife would absolutely love it if you complimented her. She is probably dressing up hoping that you will notice and is disappointed when you seem not to. If you don't start complimenting her, other men's compliments start sounding good to a ... (read in full...)
He lied to me and continued his friendship with the other girl...
Q. My BF of 7 years insists on continuing his friendship with a female friend even though it makes me extremely angry and hurt. He began this friendship about 3 years ago and I was bothered by it due to the overly inappropropriate flirtatious nature ...
A. 16 November 2005: Your boyfriend may love you but probably gets a real ego boost from this other girls attention. If he cared for you, he would cool it with her knowing that it bothers you but probably will continue on if he thinks he can get away with it. There is ... (read in full...)
When I feel shy, I drink too much... then I get too rowdy!
Q. Hi, It's not really about relationship advice, I just wanted help. Saturday it was my friend's birthday so we all went out. I got wasted and the man I have liked for ages and who told me he liked me too was there. But when he saw me he went som...
A. 15 November 2005: It might be fun to go out and drink but you do not realize what you really look like when you are drunk. Alcohol knocks out the part of your brain that tells you right from wrong not to mention putting you in dangerous situations. How would you ... (read in full...)
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